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If you decided that it is time for you to take control of your life rather than some outside force, and you start to move forward in that direction with honesty and truth, you will soon discover that your life will shift in a positive way.  If you are wondering how that is possible, then listen to my words and try to absorb their meaning and impact.  When you change your attitude, your behavior and your environmental patterns in a positive way, things happen. You will start to notice a change in the way you look at life, this happens through the power of your inner voice, I call it your intuition, while others call it the small voice within you.  It is through this powerful force within each one of us that we are able to ignite our energy and transform it. We have the power within us to become our own intuition expert. As we begin to see the world differently, we are better prepared to move forward in the direction of greater joy, inner peace, a stronger sense of confidence, worth and improved abundance.  That is when you start to realize that you are manifesting for your life that which you are seeking.

The bottom line for all of us is that it is up to us, you and me alike, to listen to our intuition, to understand its purpose and to respect the gift that utilizing your intuition will bring forth. As an intuitive specialist, I realize the power and impact that your intuition can have over your life. Your intuition will never steer you wrong—it will only guide you on the right path, the easier road but it will not materialize for you if you refuse to pay attention and listen to its soft and faint message.  It is your job, as your own intuition expert, to become more comfortable with hearing that little voice. Once you become attune to its soft voice, you will soon discover that its gifts flow to you with ease.  That is when you are manifesting for your life. 

Like everything else in life there are always side effects or shortcomings that occur when we fail to pay attention to our intuition, such as:

1.When you continually hear the messages, but you really do not want to listen to them—you lose!

2.  You are too lazy to pay attention, so you ignore it and lose again.

3.  You are not emotionally ready to move in the direction of your highest so once again you refuse to pay attention to your intuition and you miss out.

4.  You are still more comfortable with drama and struggle, so you don’t believe what you are hearing.

5.  You are not aware that your intuition is leading you down the right path because you fail to recognize its voice and you discount it from your consciousness.

Once you believe in and understand the power of your intuition, you see the benefits that spring forth, such as;

1.  Everything falls into place with ease.

2.  You want to pay attention to all subtle thoughts and ideas because you are seeking to find the clues that will help you reach your desired goal.

3.   You are emotionally ready to move in the direction of your highest good in the best way.

4.  You move away from drama and struggle and look for the ways to bring everything into alignment.

5.  You are completely aware and alert to the inner voice, your intuition that is giving you guidance and messages and you win.

Each one of us has been given the gift of intuition but most of us have allowed this gift to be buried and forgotten.  Isn’t it time for you to re-awaken your power and invite it back into your life?  All the great professionals in the world have become their own intuition specialist because they know its power and benefits.  I encourage you to make the time to tap into your intuition and begin to know and believe for yourself that it is important to become the best intuition expert possible because you choose to manifest for your lives all that you desire.  When you makes that choice, your like will begin to change!

Your actions have consequences

Tuesday, September 18th, 2018

I remember the time when I listened to a news report discussing the prank call from the two Australian radio personalities who impersonated the Queen of England so that they could receive information about the hospitalized Princess.  The woman nurse who answered the call from the pranksters killed herself over this matter; most probably because she felt as though she betrayed the dignity of her profession and the possible endangerment of the Princess.  How sad!  The lesson learned here is that everything has a consequence.  Some may think that this is simply silliness at play or that they have a justified right to infringe on others with no consequences.  Or maybe it is the stupidity of our multi-media and like organizations that laugh at, reward and encourage others like these two pranksters without penalty.  The truth of the matter is that if we are truly and seriously eager to live a healthier and happier life, we need to take the appropriate steps to heal our mind, heal our lives from poor behavior, improper attitudes and destructive conduct.

One of the Laws of Nature is that for every action there is a re-action – the Law of Cause and Effect– and then there are the laws of the Creator that merely asks us to treat others as we would like to be treated.  How simplistic life can be if we only showed some constraint towards others and acted in a principled manner with compassion— caring and sharing. I have said often that we do not need more governing in the world; we only need more conscious people who take responsibility for their behavior.  When we consciously act and behave with intention, we are setting ourselves up to empower ourselves, so we can heal our mind, heal our lives.

When I was growing up we were expected to perform and behave in a respectful manner towards others and ourselves and we were held accountable for our actions and behavior.  We learned that we have certain duties or tasks to perform if we want to live in good standing within the realm of society and at the same time we have certain responsibilities that help us stay focused—aware and honest.

We all have bad moments in life when we wish we could do it over but that doesn’t excuse us from the consequences that follow.  It is no different than if you throw a stone in a pond and watch the ripples start.  They continue to create an effect upon the water.  Our behavior has a rippling effect on others and that effect has the power to build and set good examples or harm and cause great pain.

There is evidence of many wonderful and caring people in the world but on the flip side of the coin there is equal evidence of contemptible people who have no concern for the feelings or reactions of others.  Neither one of us can resolve this situation but we certainly can and must bring it to the attention of our children, the youth, and show them the harm that is caused by poor decisions and choices.  My son is always speaking to his young children about these very thoughts.  When the children do something that is not pleasing, they are reminded about the poor choices they have made.  These children are being taught to think about the way they act and react daily.  It may not sink into their sub-conscious mind at that moment but with time, it definitely will.  They are being taught to take responsibility for their behavior, their actions or their lack thereof.

 Whether your employer or anyone else tells you to act in a manner that is inappropriate, you still have choices and you most definitely have a responsibility to yourself to behave in a manner that is respectful and beneficial not only to yourself but to others.  There is a definite connection between your actions (the cause) and the consequences (the effect).  You will never be able to take control of your life or its outcome if you continually refuse to take full responsibility for your behavior and attitude.  As always it starts with you and your perception of life and how you make decisions and choices.  No one thrives to feel suffering and pain but rather seeks to enjoy a life of improved wellbeing.  You have within your power the ability to heal your mind, heal your life.  I encourage you to empower yourself and reach for the stars and be the best person you can be.  That state of mind and body has many rewards.

We can always say, “I’m sorry.”  But after a while, even those words can have hollow meaning unless you sincerely mean them and take the necessary steps to make sure your actions represent whom you truly are and how you truly want to be remembered.

Are you falling short of your goals?

Tuesday, September 11th, 2018

Are you someone who is having difficulty in achieving your goals? Willpower and a pattern shift will help you get closer to achieving your goals so that you will be better prepared to reach your highest potential!  By willpower I mean, being willing to harness self-control over your life and those situations that we all encounter daily.  Sometimes it is easy to exhibit self-control but too often it is very difficult because the pull towards those experiences that really don’t benefit us is strong.  That is when your ability to be your best life coach comes into play.  After all, no one wants to deny themselves the basic desires that seem to be so appealing.  We get lazy and make excuses for ourselves; however, I am here to tell you that that approach to life usually leaves you falling short of your goals.  Maybe it is time to give your self a pep talk and become your best life coach yet!

When you consciously have the strength to refrain from overeating or you refuse to participate in harmful gossip or name calling, you are showing restraint and willpower.  When you are aware of temptations that might give you instant gratification but long-term heartbreak, you are exhibiting willpower and self-control.  No one can sustain a life of constant indulgence without repercussions; It would serve you to learn how to maintain balance and a real sense of self-control and discipline.

I have found that when I face temptations and consciously refrain from following its call, I feel free and more content with myself.   It is like I just won the battle with my ego mind and my higher self, came out ahead.  Yes, it takes discipline and a conscious awareness that allows me to make a sound choose that will lead me to greater joy. But then again, I am worth the effort!   Now mind you, I don’t always succeed; I admit that I often give in to my lower base desires.  However, I work diligently at rebounding and finding a better way to improve and succeed by putting in front of me, things, people or situations that strengthen my resolve. I have a strong desire to reach my highest potentiality and that desire alone has given me the courage and strength to constantly push forward. In other words, I choose to remove from my focal point unnecessary temptations, unwanted stressful situations and even unrealistic goals that will only set me up to fall.  I am continually reading material that will allow me to boast my mind to focus on the positive end result that I have set for myself.  I envision what my life will look like as I work towards transforming my life for the better.  When I take those positive steps to improve my life, I am being a good life coach to myself.

When I am struggling to push through a challenge, I find that talking to myself and coaching myself is very helpful.  In other words, I give me a pep talk! I have a dialogue with my mind.  I start asking questions, looking for the root cause of my block and ways that I can strengthen my self-control that will set me up for success. I am also continually reaching out to my Power Angels and asking for their support, guidance, love and yes input.  I encourage you to try new approaches towards strengthening your willpower.  If fear is holding you back, speak to the fear and find out why you experience those emotions.  You will always get an answer.

Our minds and spirits are intelligent and will respond when pushed to the wall.  You will find that with time, you will get better with your inward conversations and eventually your gut feelings and/or intuition will be communicating in a stronger and clearer manner.  When we truly understand what is holding us back, we are better able to overcome our fears, anxiety and blocks.

Once you see or feel a breakthrough in the right direction, continue to be persistent.  Don’t get lazy and think you can slide a little because you will, too quickly, discover that that kind of attitude will cause you to slip and slide backward.  If you really have a target that you want to reach so that you will transform your life for the better, you will need to stay the course, discipline yourself, remain persistent and keep your eye on the end game.  I, for one, choose to reach my highest potential in this lifetime that is why I need to get all the support I can from my Power Angels.  They, indeed, are my closest and dearest friends and I encourage you to make them your true friends too!

“Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.”
Mahatma Gandhi

“In the absence of willpower, the most complete collection of virtues and talents is wholly worthless.”
Aleister Crowley

Become a Beacon of Hope

Tuesday, September 4th, 2018

As we move further into the last quarter of this year – 2018, I thought this to be the appropriate time to nudge some of you into raising your expectations, so you will be better prepared to reach your highest potential and manifest for your life  all that which you desire.   I ask you to ponder these words about becoming a beacon of hope and allow them to sink into the depths of your soul.  You see, there is so much hurt and pain in the world that I thought it was time for us to focus our thoughts on seeking out new possibilities, which include being a beacon of hope for the future.  In our programs with clients when asked what they want to accomplish in life the response is overwhelming: “I want to help others, or I want to make a difference in the world.”  While those words are noble and inspiring, I sometimes find them to be shallow.  Why you might ask?  Because I do not believe that some of the people making those statements understand that in order to become a beacon of hope to others we first must be an inspiration to ourselves.  So, the very next question to ask is: “How do you value and respect yourself?  Are you kind to and caring about your mind, body and the way you act and react?  Do you do things because you have to or because they are expected of you or do you ask yourself, if the action taken is for your best wellbeing?  We, you and I will never reach our highest potentiality or ever be able to manifest for our lives to the fullest if we continually place ourselves at the back of the line.

I sincerely believe that it is impossible to help others and become a beacon of hope and light to them if we are lacking those traits our self.  In other words, we need to pay close attention to our needs, so we will be in alignment with creation, for when we walk and talk with love, caring and sharing in our hearts, we are better prepared to spread those messages to others.  If we are void in those areas, we have nothing to share.

If we want to encourage and show others how to cope, experience peace of mind and offer support, we first must develop those skills for ourselves.  If you are having difficulty with coping in your life, maybe you are lacking wholesome friendships or are lonely or even feeling as though you can’t find the right job or sense of purpose, then you need to spend some quality time with yourself and seek guidance from your God and your angel friends. The Power Angels are always ready, willing and able to come to your assistance when asked.  Few people understand the power of God and His Messengers of Light, the Power Angels.

There are always answers to our questions and needs that are being shared and shown to us— all we need to do is be still and listen as we open our mind and heart to receive the messages that are being sent just for us.  In truth, we are never alone.  God and all of His Power Angels are all around us.  Their messages are clear, precise and perfected just for us—it is our task to pay attention and stay alert and vigil.

Their voices are soft and swift.  I have found in my own life that if I am not paying attention, I will miss their words of wisdom.  It takes practice to be vigilant and be open to hear.  I often say that it is like following the clues of life.  They are all around us but it is up to us, you and me alike, to keep our hearts and minds pure and free from the busyness of the world.  It is the practice of conscious awareness, the concentration of our minds through the systematic process of listening, staying alert and paying attention to the spaces between the words—that is, where the clues present themselves to us.  This practice can only be actualized when you quiet the mind, feed the soul and calm the body so that it can absorb the higher vibrations and energy of the Universal flow.  That is how you will open the floodgates to reach your highest potential as you are manifesting for your life your greatest dreams.

Stress, restlessness and doubt are the enemies of a contrite heart.  These three factors are obstacles and hindrances to your forward motion.  To become a true beacon of hope for yourself and others requires discipline of the mind, body and spirit.  The benefits of achieving a deep concentration of the mind can only be realized when you cultivate a positive mindset and become the beacon of hope for yourself.  It is through your example and positive way of thinking that others will follow your lead and learn from your ways.

What comes to mind for me is the Prayer of St Francis of Assisi.  Repeat it often until you absorb it full meaning.

Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.

Where there is hatred, let me sow love.

Where there is injury, pardon.

Where there is doubt, faith.

Where there is despair, hope.

Where there is darkness, light.

Where there is sadness, joy.

O Divine Master,

Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled, as to console;

To be understood, as to understand;

To be loved, as to love.

For it is in giving that we receive.

It is in pardoning that we are pardoned,

And it is in dying that we are born to Eternal Life.

Amen.

Your Mind is a Powerful Instrument

Tuesday, August 28, 2018

Your mind is a powerful tool or instrument and like any other tools if it is used properly it can produce great results but if misused, it can breakdown or destroy.  As I lay awake in bed the other night, I started to think about the power of the mind—sometimes I let it run away with me and it moves into a state of worry and fear. When that happens, I feel anxious and my body begins to ache and hurt. For example, I saw a dark colored mark on my arm and my first thought was—it must be skin cancer.  I worried and fretted, and I tried to put those thoughts out of my head but nonetheless, they were there—front and center.  That evening after I showered, I looked again at the mark and I realized that it was a scab from a bruise.  I don’t remember when I got it or how I got it but none-the-less, it was there and healing.

My point is that I was totally upset by what I first saw, and I began to imagine the worst.  My mind played tricks on me and lead me in the wrong direction.  If I continued that path, I would have been completely upset and panicking.  So, my message to you is, do you see what happens when your mind goes unchecked?  Our minds are complex, and therefore, must be guarded and watched so as not to run us amuck and destroy that which we are trying to perfect.

It is within our power to control our minds and refuse to allow them to create a scenario that is contrary to our wellbeing.  You have the power to heal your life, heal your body and believe me, that will happen when you begin to empower yourself for your highest and best good.  If, and when you are feeling challenged, call in your Power Angels to guide, encourage and work with you to heal your life, heal your body.  I speak about the Power Angels frequently because I want you to know and believe that they were sent to Earth to help us humans enjoy this experience in a healthy and wonderful way.

When we nurture and cultivate our minds to function clearly and with precision we set ourselves up to fulfill all our desires.  Our minds have an unlimited capacity to hold and store information and it is only limited by our limiting beliefs. In today’s world, we can access a wealth of information at a moment’s notice – it isn’t in the accumulation of information that is the focus here but rather how we use the information to satisfy our heart’s desires.  We can dream and collect data but once we have brought an idea to the foreground, it is what we do with it that makes all the difference in the world.  We cultivate and strengthen our imagination by using our mind, our brain to step out of the box and take a risk.  Visualization is just one valuable tool that is used by our minds to bring something into the present.  Through visualization we have the ability to create an entire scene or movie of what we want to see realized.  Many athletes and business professionals have discussed how their lives have dramatically improved with the power of creative visualization.  They have learned how to empower themselves. Creative visualization uses the power of the mind to bring about what you are seeking.  An easy exercise is to simply sit in a chair or lie down and see the scenario that you are hoping to materialize in your mind’s eye.  Be specific, create a precise and clear scene, use color, tonality, make it bright and vivid, add movement and speak a tag line or statement of what you want to create and bring into your reality and when you want to accomplish it—give an exact time line. By visualizing a specific situation or plan you are attracting it into your life. Each one of us has the power and ability to heal our lives and empower ourselves if we are willing to make the effort to move in that direction.   The magic that is evolving is through the power of your mind.  Albert Einstein used creative visualization all his life.  He said: “Logic will get you from A to B.  Imagination will take you everywhere.”

“Imagination is the beginning of creation. You imagine what you desire, you will what you imagine and at last you create what you will.”— 
George Bernard Shaw

“Without leaps of imagination, or dreaming, we lose the excitement of possibilities. Dreaming, after all, is a form of planning.”— 
Gloria Steinem

Maybe it is time to stop making excuses about where you are in life and begin taking the action steps that will help you heal your body,  heal your life.  Again, I suggest that if you need a support team around you to make it happen, your Power Angels are ready, willing and able to accommodate you!  Many blessings on your travels through life!

Are You a Worrier?

Wednesday, August 22, 2018

Did you know that worry can cause great sickness and disease?  Worry can affect the mind, body and spirit in ways that might surprise you and cause you great anxiety and stress and even panic during the waking hours.  I know that when a worry while I am sleeping, I start to become jumpy and restless.  My body immediately goes into overdrive.  For me, the only way to counteract this is to quiet my mind and continually do a mantra bring in inner peace and calmness.  We all need to continually empower ourselves to be the best we can be and that includes during our sleeping hours. It is impossible to reach your highest potential or even achieve a wonderful sense of inner peace without some effort on your part.

When you refuse to worry and consciously choose to keep stress out, you are proving to yourself and others that you are placing your trust in your Creator. That is called self-empowerment! You cannot reach your highest potential if you are continually feeling negative and depressing thoughts.  You will weaken your power and cause more stress within your body, your organs and your nervous system.  Stress, worry, anxiety releases a hormone called cortisol that cause irritability, muscle aches, fatigue, upset stomach and a host of many other symptoms which in turn adds a lot of stress to the immune system and negatively affects your overall health.

If you are like me, I would rather live my life feeling more whole and complete and free from worry, doubt and fear.  I prefer to have a healthy lifestyle free from medication and drugs.  Having said that means that I need to empower myself as I work towards preventing those negative traits to manifest in my life.   One very valuable and yet simple antidote that will greatly serve you is to seek to express gratitude even if you have not yet experienced the outcome.  When I can make a difference in a measurable way to improve my mind, body and spirit, I am all for it.  When I go to bed at night, I say a prayer of thanksgiving and gratitude for all that I have and for being kept safe that day.  When I rise in the morning, I am grateful for the opportunity of start a new day and creating the pathway for me to reach my highest potential.

Gratitude releases us from toxic emotions.  According to the Harvard Medical School, the definition of gratitude is: “a thankful appreciation for what an individual received, whether tangible or intangible.   With gratitude, people acknowledge the goodness in their lives—As a result, gratitude also helps people connect to something larger than themselves as individuals whether it be to other people, to nature or to a higher power.”

With gratitude in your heart, you are gaining in strength, courage and the wisdom that shows the world and your Creator that you are surrendering all your troubles to Him.  With gratitude in your heart, you are feeling a greater sense of inner peace and happiness. Gratitude opens the door to better and more relationships, it improves your physical and psychological health and allows you to sleep more relaxed and peacefully. A poor attitude will kill your sense of worth and gratitude. I encourage you to empower yourself so you can and will experience all that you desire.  That is the only way to reach your highest potential for your life!

I would like to inspire you to practice the act of gratitude daily; it is the perfect antidote to fear and anger. Try it and see for yourself.  When we are upset, anxious or angry, our facial expressions become tense and stern, however, when we think about something that we are grateful for in our lives, our body language and we become automatically more relaxed, a smile comes over your face and your physiology changes. When you focus on what you already have and voice your gratitude for it even within the depths of your heart, your heart opens wider and your healing begins. You are fueling your mind and body to maintain a higher vibration as you continue to remain excited about your life. You can’t feed into anger or fear while you are expressing gratitude. Gratitude changes everything!

Live your life in gratitude. When you are thankful for all that you presently have, you are setting the stage to bring more of that into your life. That is how you empower yourself. Remember you will never reach your highest potential with a negative mindset! Happiness and inner peace grows where gratitude flows.

A World of Hate

Tuesday, August 14, 2018

A world of hate begins with a single word of anger that festers within your heart, your mind and then sets your emotional state in frenzy.  We see it happening every day in many different ways and most of the time these events are out of our control.  Yet each one of us has within our power the ability to change our point of view and our approach to what is placed in front of us, if we are willing to remain alert, aware and above all okay with the fact that everything is not going to go our way all the time we will be better prepared to enjoy a wonderful state of inner peace and calm.

I recently encountered a situation in my new community were some individuals insisted on having things go only their way and when someone or something comes along that ask for reasonable change, they become angry, resentful and unwilling to communicate.  If and when situations arise in your life that speaks to that type of situation, I ask you to do what I did—ask for guidance from the Divine.  At first, I must admit, I became angry and annoyed but then I began to calm down, relax and look for an alternative that might benefit everyone.  In my case, I did not find it, but I tried.  I reached out my hand and asked that we connect and communicate.  In other words, I extended an olive branch.  Although it was rejected, I still wanted to make the effort because I did not want to be the one who participated in a world of anger and hate. Inner Peace cannot and will not be achieved when we focus on anger, resentment and the need to be right at any cost. There is so much of that kind of thinking and behavior already in the world and I for one choose not to contribute to it.  Maybe we all need to consider new ways to transform our lives, so we can live with a better sense of understanding our world and the people in it?  In order to heal our lives and enjoy a renewed sense of inner peace and transformation, it would better serve us, that is, each one of us if we could try to put ourselves in the other person’s shoes.  It is only then that we might see the bigger picture and understand why they are the way they are or possibly act the way they do.

We do not need to become victims to other people’s actions or reactions, but we do need, or at least I believe it, to turn the other cheek and focus instead on ways to transform our thinking so as to find some peace and solace within our soul.  Victimhood is an emotional state where we feel attacked and like a target for other people’s emotional baggage.  That type of behavior has no real benefit.

In the bigger scheme of things, I believe that the world will only begin to change and become friendlier and caring when we individually take the step to make it happen.  It is so easy to always want our way, but there are times when compromise and reasonableness is needed to heal our lives, to heal your life. 

I do not believe that we came to this planet, Earth to battle each other but rather to share and care about each other.  Yet I have noticed that we become so attached to our own vision and wants to the point that we put blinders on and refuse to see the alternates of choice.

When we are willing to change our perception, we often are better prepared to accept into our lives new or different possibilities.  How you view the world around you often shapes your opinions and attitude.

People like to play games.  I do not think they look at it that way, but none-the-less, people do it every day.  Maybe it is the game of: ‘I will get you’, or the game of: ’you cannot tell me what to do’ and even the game of: ‘I am in control here and don’t you forget it!’   You see— we are always trying to manipulate—sway and control others so that we can have it all—whatever the all is.   Now is the time to rethink and reshape our attitudes and behavior so we can transform our lives into a better you and me.

I know only too well all about the games that have been played over time, however, I have chosen not to partake in them because they only lead to anger, hate and pain. Instead, I have grown to understand and learn that when I release the outcome and allow God to handle it for me, I feel better. I have come to realize that as I release and surrender that my anger dissipates and my mood shifts.  I would be lying if I told you that this approach is easy because it is not; however, I can attest to the fact that I genuinely feel better and happier when I accept this approach.  Yes, there is a world of hate out there, but you and I do not have to contribute to it.  I am committed to transforming my life, so I can enjoy a renewed sense of inner peace as I heal my life.  I sincerely hope you are too!

How doubt and fear destroy!

Monday, August 6, 2018

I have learned in my life that there are numerous layers to our doubts and fears.  When I have successfully tackled some of my doubts and fears, I have grown in leaps and bounds but then, new layers appear that seem to choke my progress.  I do not believe that we will be 100% free of doubt or fear and maybe that is a good thing because we also need to keep in check our defense mechanism and use our common sense to stay safe and avoid dangerous situations as we try to think clearly.

I do believe there are ways to help us control our negative emotions; ways that can benefit our course of action and enable us to better handle and improve our quality of life.  For example, when you are challenged by a fearful experience, possible a new experience that you have never encountered before, plow forward.  This is not the time to retract but rather a time to stay alert and aware of your doubts and fears and move through them.  In other words, stand face to face with your fears and actually speak to them.  They are your feelings and they have a voice.  Ask your doubt and fear to speak to you and let you know where their basis or root stems from.  You may be surprised to discover that what you fear is actually something that can be dispelled quickly.

If you are easily intimidated by others or large crowds, move out of your comfort zone and step into the scene.  In actuality, the other people are probably feeling the same way and together you can all relax and interconnect in a fun and rewarding way.   More often than not, we create our fears and doubts due to our overactive minds; when we are able to face the fear, we discover that it usually dissipates.  That is the time for you to become your best life coach and council your self-talk to examine the real reason for your negative emotions and make friends with them.  Self-examination, self-coaching is a powerful tool that will help you stay safe and secure within your mind and body.

Through a series of deep seeded fears, we create a distorted picture that seems to grow and grow until we become emotionally paralyzed.  We certainly do not want to get to that state of fear.  That is why it would better serve you to tackle your fears early on and learn how to speak to them, change the scenario and manifest a new scene where you are feeling empowered, strong and worthy.  I recently spoke to a young man who is very talented and skilled but most of his life he has felt challenged by dyslexia.  He has always been able to compensate for it in small ways but none-the-less, he felt frustrated and continually anxious.  He was introduced to a support community, the Toastmasters, which has helped him learn how to focus on his strengths and deal with his shortcomings.  He has been asked to be a public speaker in his profession and now feels more empowered and confident than ever before.  He faced his doubts and fears, pushed through his comfort zone with the support of a leadership community and his life is soaring to new heights.  Awesome is the word to express his personal and professional success.  This, too, can be your story when you are ready to take a leap of faith and move through the blocks that are stopping your forward movement.  We all can become our own best life coach if we willingly take responsibility for our thoughts and actions.  Develop a positive mental attitude and continually nurture it.

I do not think there is one human being who from time to time has not experienced a moment of vulnerability.  That is part of the human story, but those feelings are not supposed to stop us, rather they are meant to open us up to reach farther and farther beyond our comfort zone and grow in ways that previously seemed impossible.

Each one of us has the ability to develop new skills that will inspire, motivate and open us to receive new opportunities when we are willing to try. Consciously coach yourself today and always and you will soon discover a more fulfilling life.

Be careful what you water your dreams with. Water them with worry and fear and you will produce weeds that choke the life from your dream. Water them with optimism and solutions and you will cultivate success. Always be on the lookout for ways to turn a problem into an opportunity for success. Always be on the lookout for ways to nurture your dream.–Lao Tzu

Remember, it is always worth the risk to encounter short-term challenges in order to ensure long-term happiness!

Self-mastery is a marvelous idea!

Tuesday, July 24, 2018

Do you feel stuck? Is your temper out of control?  Are you a person who lacks self-control or maybe even sufficient determination to stick to a plan?

Self-mastery is a great idea; however, if you lack the ability to control your emotions as you give into your whims, then you need to develop some valuable life skills to help keep you on track. In order to take control of that part of your nature that you want to feed, you need to understand that self-mastery begins with awareness.  When I feel stuck or unwilling to take control of a situation, I call in my specific Power Angel to help coach me, so I can reach my highest potential.   Do you like to feed the negative vices; thoughts and feelings that have controlled your life or do you choose to feed the positive, good-natured aspect of you that wants to find strategies that will build up your best character traits?  You have the power within you to become your own life coach and continually do what is needed for you to reach your highest potential.  I pray for courage, strength and wisdom on a daily basis because I know it is so easy to slide back into my old habits and patterns.  If you are anything like me, I encourage you to not get disheartened or think about quitting.  Ask for special grace and blessings to help you keep going. My Power Angels are my best friends.   I trust them and know they are looking out for my wellbeing and I connect with them frequently.

Each one of us have been born with a handicap but at the same time each one of us has also been born with a special and unique talent and ability to help us master our lives.

 Ask yourself this question:  Am I okay with where I am right now, or do I want to experience my greatness and a life of becoming amazing?   What brings you joy each day?  Seek out a life that makes you want to get out of bed in the morning to tackle a new day.  Continually talk to yourself.  You can be the best life coach to yourself if and when you make the time and commitment to strengthen your good qualities and work towards taking a different path that will help you reach your highest potential.

Beware of good intentions!  We, too often, have good intentions about doing things that are right but we fall short of putting them into action.  It is time for you to train yourself to be disciplined to reach your highest potential.  One way to help you achieve self-discipline is by creating new habits.  Become your own life coach and talk to your body, mind and spirit on a regular basis.  With self-discipline, you can become your best in all aspects of your life.  Never underestimate the resourcefulness of your Power Angels.  Each angel sent to Earth, has a special gift or ability to help us hone in on our own personal traits.  All you need to do is call them into your life and they will show you the way.

Too often our bodies want to give up when the going gets tough.  It is your responsibility to stay strong, fight back as you get back up and get ready to reach your highest potential.  Recognize your good qualities and praise yourself.  When you encourage and give yourself a pat on the back, you are actually coaching yourself to acknowledge your finer points.  Maybe it is time for you to reflect on your life and examine the many ways you have grown and changed.  Wisdom can be found in the strangest places!

Boomerang Theory

Wednesday, July 18, 2018

It is the same old story—what comes around, goes around.  Life can be that simple yet we, too often, seem to miss the target and look for solutions that are a misfit.  Let me explain.  I just got off the phone with a client who was having personal life issues that were causing not only her life to be unstable but that of her Mom and her Daughter.  You see, we are all energy beings so if we put out energy of fear, worry and ‘I was done wrong’—guess what—that is exactly the type of energy that you are going to attract.  When you attract that type of energy, you draw it into your life, and into all relationships.  Your thoughts and attitude, your behavior and the way you act out in all situations absolutely affects your behavior and your outcome. It’s time for you to become alert and aware and begin to realize that when you mix it all together, that is, your thoughts, your behavior and your attitude with the environment in which you work-live and play you will create and experience exactly what you are focusing on.  Therefore, if you have a life of discomfort, unhappiness and uneasiness, you will manifest those feelings, which will often lead to an upset stomach and even sickness. Do you understand the cycle that is being created? I want to help you break those negative expressions and experiences and help you manifest a new and improved lifestyle.  You actually have the ability to become your own life coach and your own relationship expert and shift your energy for good if you sincerely and honestly want to accomplish that end goal.

Life is meant to be happy and rich but if and when we cloud it over with our emotional blocks or issues, we build a thick wall around that stream of richness and happiness and surround it with darkness. You are actually building an impenetrable fort.   Light can only filter through when we open the door and windows of our heart, mind and spirit. As I was speaking to this young client, I found that she was determined to continue to share her pain and sorrow with me to the point that she could not hear the solutions and tools that I was sharing with her. She was completely blocked and unwilling to seek solutions because, in truth, she was feeling comfortable staying in the dark.  At that moment no coaching skills were beneficial. She told me about a person who said that he would shift the energy for her and do the work for her.  Please be aware–that is false and bogus information.  No one has the power to shift your energy—that power belongs to you and you alone!  It is your duty and responsibility to become your best life coach and your own personal relationship expert if and when you decide to enjoy a wonderful sense of inner peace and contentment. No other individual can make your life whole or complete, ONLY you have that ability to make it happen.  Yes, we can and often need to seek out guidance and support but please note that ultimately, you are the one who makes the final choices and decision.  Guidance and support are crucial, but nothing is more valuable then you taking hold of your life and making it happen!

I or anyone else can present tools, steps and then guide you on your journey by showing you where the blocks and problems are rooted but it is your life and your journey and ‘You’ are the only one who has the power to clean up your circumstances, shift your beliefs and purify your energy field if you want to enjoy an improved lifestyle of inner peace and contentment.

So, getting back to the boom-a-rang theory—what you are throwing out will eventually return to you.  If, for example, you are feeling anxious or sad or nervous, you can pretty much guarantee that your children and family will pick up on that energy and show similar signs or traits that stem from your issues.  Yes, we are all vessels of energy—that is why I encourage you to frequently clear and clean your energy field through meditation, moments in silence and through breathing exercises that clear out toxins and open your cells to receive nourishment and healing.

Too often I have had women approach me concerning the problems they are experiencing with their children.  They seem to be acting out in negative and often disruptive ways, which of course, results in havoc in the household.  Please understand that even a young newborn will pick up on your fear-based energy.  If you are feeling anxious, frustrated or even feelings of unworthiness, your children will sense your weaknesses and pick-up on those same feelings and become fearful and anxious too.   Our children learn through our examples and their sense of intuition and awareness is very sharp.  Their energy is pure, and their antennas are laser beams that are sensitive and alert.  That is why I suggest to you to become your own life coach and relationship expert, so you are better prepared to hone in on all life’s encounters.

You actually can improve your emotional state, which will at the same time improve the emotional state of those who are within your sphere of influence and bring a wonderful sense of inner peace into your home.  When you understand this concept and make healthy and good choices you will enjoy an improved sense of wellbeing in your life. I encourage you to listen carefully to my words and pay attention with an open heart and mind.  Many blessings on your journey!

Prayer and hope—where do they fit into your life?

Tuesday, July 10, 2018

Financial disasters, droughts and floods, earthquakes and other natural upheavals encourage many people to pray and seek a hopeful outcome.  Unfortunately, too often, it takes an extreme situation to bring us to our knees in prayer and hopefulness for our lives.  For we American’s, this is a time of year when we think about freedom and the privileges that we have, but as we come to the summer season, I believe this might be the perfect opportunity to slow down and reflect on all our blessings and gifts.

For some who are homeless and without a place to call their home due to natural disasters, our hearts and prayers go out to you.  Please let us not forget that even those who lost so much still have much to be thankful for.

Many of us have been used to living the status quo life, taking our lives for granted and as a result, we ignore the possibility that change is inevitable.  In truth, we never know when we will be rudely awakened to the instant alteration of our lives.  Life is constantly shifting, and we must learn to move with that change or else we will get swept away.

While this time of year is a perfect reminder to stop for a moment of prayer and reflection, I would like to suggest that each one of us begin to practice a new habit; that is, thanking God daily for all that you have and all that you hope to have tomorrow.  We can experience a state of inner peace, if and when we work to bring it into our lives.

Prayer and hopefulness is part of my human fiber.  I am always hopeful for a better tomorrow and I pray frequently that God and my angel friends, the Power Angels, guide my journey and protect me from harm.  When change comes into my life, I pray that I will accept it with grace and positive thinking.  When I am stressed, I ask God to calm me down and help me release my anxiety and doubt and I never go to sleep at night without giving thanks for all that I have.

I can honestly say that prayer and hope are part of my life, my authentic self and because of it,I actually live free from sickness and dis-ease in my body. Maybe it is time for you to bring prayer and hope into your daily life?  I know you will feel better for it! If you are having a difficult time in understanding this, call in your Power Angles to give you guidance, support and clarity.  Below are some thoughtful quotes that have given me pause and reflection.  inner peace is vital for my health and well being and I work to stay in the state of mind.

“A Desire becomes a Hope when we discover a reason for its expectation, and there is no better reason to expect something than a promise given in the Word of God.”- Rex Rouis

 “We tend to use prayer as a last resort, but God wants it to be our first line of defense. We pray when there’s nothing else we can do, but God wants us to pray before we do anything at all.

 Most of us would prefer, however, to spend our time doing something that will get immediate results. We don’t want to wait for God to resolve matters in His good time because His idea of ‘good time’ is seldom in sync with ours.”  ― Oswald Chambers

 “When every hope is gone, ‘when helpers fail, and comforts flee,’ I find that help arrives somehow, from I know not where. Supplication, worship, and prayer are no superstition; they are acts more real than the acts of eating, drinking, sitting or walking. It is no exaggeration to say that they alone are real, all else is unreal.” ― Mahatma Gandhi, The Story of My Experiments With Truth

Dear readers, life can certainly be challenging and difficult at times yet when you spend moments in reflection and prayer and connect with your Power Angels, your situations can shift, and miracles happen.

Below is a list of the Power Angels that I connect with all the time.  I feel comforted and at peace knowing that my Power Angel friends are helping me daily in my life.  When you start this practice, you, too, will enjoy the same sense of inner peace and contentment.

List of 20 Angel that you can call on daily

1.    Archangel Michael      The Angel of Protection

2.    Archangel Jophiel              The Angel of Illumination and Clarity of Vision

3.   Archangel Uriel          The Angel of Peace and Tranquility

4.   Archangel Chamuel    The Angel of Love

5.   Archangel Gabriel             The Angel of Guidance

6. Archangel Raphael       The Angel of Healing

7. Archangel Zadkiel        The Angel of Practical Assistance and Prayer

8.   Archangel Metatron     The Angel of Thought and Deeds

9.   Angel Amarushaya       The Angel of Blessings

10.  Angel Sandalphon        The Angel of Power—Self-Empowerment

11.  Angel Galgaliel             The Angel of Vibration

12.  Angel Hamied        The Angel of Miracles

13.  Angel Amitel         The Angel of Truth

14.  Angel Cerviel        The Angel of Courage

15.  Angel Stamera             The Angel of Forgiveness

16.  Angel Zacharael           The Angel of Surrender and Trust

17.  Angel Jamaerah               The Angel of Manifestation

18.  Angel Shekinak              The Angel to the Gateway to the Eternal Light within

19.  Angel Phanuel           The Angel of Hope

20.  Angel Ramaela          The Angel of Playfulness and Joy

Since the beginning of time, there have been stories and sightings about God’s Power Angels and how they have heralded in the many messages of hope, love, warning and encouragement.  I speak to the Power Angels frequently during my day seeking advice, help, support and protection.  I believe they are always with all of us and eager to come to our assistance but it is our responsibility to ask them to help and please remember to be specific about what we are requesting.

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Who do you think you are?

Wednesday, July 4, 2018

You are your thoughts!  Have you heard that statement before because it is a truth!  Just think about it for a moment—if you feel good about who you are and your purpose in life, you walk tall, look good and project an attitude of confidence and self-respect. You feel a sense of inner peace and calm.  If on the other hand, you feel dejected, unworthy and exhibit low self-esteem, your body language reveals that same message to the world and all whom you come in contact with.

Napoleon Hill once wrote that in order to enjoy great wealth or great success, you must believe that it is possible with every ounce of your being. According to Hill, “98% of people had few or no firm beliefs, and this alone puts true success firmly out of their reach.”  He said: “Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve.”  I want you to become your own relationship expert and believe that the best relationship starts with having a healthy relationship with self.

So after hearing those words, the next question is:  What is your purpose?  Do you believe with your whole heart and mind and soul that it is possible because what you believe is what your outcome will become?  When you coach yourself to have a healthy relationship with self, you truly will experience a real sense of inner peace and contentment.

It is all about the power of your mind.  We all know it is an awesome vehicle that only humans possess.  It is actually our duty and responsibility to cultivate our mind irrespective of the level of education that we possess.  Many of our first millionaires had nothing more than a primary level of education.  They went to work at an early age and didn’t feel sorry for themselves but rather pushed harder than ever to gain more knowledge and understanding through their own personal discipline of being ardent readers and observers of other people’s success.  Just think about it, no one can control our minds—many prisoners of war were saved simply by the power of their minds.  They refused to let anyone destroy their creative abilities or the power of clear thinking.  They knew that no matter what situation they faced in life, they had a solid relationship with self that enabled them to persevere and endure hardship because eventually their life would improve.

In today’s world, too many people complain about their poor luck or misfortune when they have no one else to blame but themselves.  Government is not the answer.  It only enslaves you more and encourages you to become even more dependent.  It is only through your own personal courage, strength and discipline that each one of us can grow and prosper to the depths that we desire.

“Desire is the starting point of all achievement, not a hope, not a wish, but a keen pulsating desire, which transcends everything”.

–Napoleon Hill

Whatever your mind feeds upon it attracts! So it stands to reason that you have in your control the power to direct your thoughts to harness great wealth, that is, sound health, inner peace and balance, financial wealth or positive emotional and relationship abundance.  The best relationship you will ever enjoy is with self!  That is why I suggest that you become your own relationship expert!

It has been proven that our largest and most damaging limitations are the limitations that we place on ourselves.  For it has been said over and over again, man has the power to conquer and man has the power to destroy. You are limited only by your own capacity to believe.  The question is—Where are you placing your power today and whom do you think you are?

Remember a negative mental attitude can only bring you failure.  You are who you are and where you are due to your mental attitude.  Either it is working for you or against you—as always you are the one who gets to decide.

Can People be Fooled?

Tuesday, June 26, 2018

The question is:  “Can people be fooled?”  The answer is of course they can, especially when people are out of touch with reality!  We, too, often only hear what we want to hear.  We ignore the messages that we are not interested in and we definitely ignore the messages that might possibly offer solutions.  Why you might ask?  Probable because we are not focused, in balance, and therefore, we are not able to empower ourselves to be fully alert and aware.

Do you know that we are animals of complacency and we are also people who, too often, have blinders on, which means that we do not want to hear the messages that we believe do not serve our beliefs and/or our needs?  We can be definitely stuck in our ways and are slow to change even when shown a better way.  Does any of this relate to you?

So what are you supposed to do to change that circus like atmosphere that tells us to laugh and sneer at those who oppose our stereotypes–our pre-judgmental philosophies that ridicule and abuse as though respect and self-respect have no place in our societies.  It would greatly serve you and your life better so that you can reach your highest potential if you willingly made the time to empower yourself to be the best that you can be in the best possible way.

For example, I have a fear and stand-off approach to people with tattoos and piercings without well-grounded reasoning or understanding.  I stand away from those who do not match my energy or physical appearance and still I preach empathy and compassion.  I must admit that I work diligently at trying to understand and accept those who appear different from me, yet I remember the words of Jesus that said: “Judge not if you do not want to be judged.  For with the judgment you pronounce you will be judged, and with the measure you use it will be measured to you. ” and again. You hypocrite first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye.”

So I can say to you with compassion and hopefully understanding that I agree it is sometimes difficult to reach out my hand in a gesture of kindness and acceptance.  It may be an unending struggle as I try to figure it out for myself yet one thing I can sincerely say:  “We are all children of the same one God and if one of my fellow friends and neighbors look or act or think differently from me, I now know that it is my responsibility to turn the other check, so to speak, and welcome them into my heart and soul.”

I encourage you not to wait till you are face to face with your last judgment.  We actually have the opportunity to release judgment daily and simply accept others for how they choose to be seen and appreciated.  It doesn’t matter whether it is a homeless person, a doctor or a hip young person with tattoos.  Each one of us believes that we are expressing ourselves for our highest and best good so that we can reach our highest potential and empower ourselves at the same time.

It is time for us to strip off the labels and our judgment glasses and allow each individual to be appreciated in the light that they themselves believe serves their best interests and enables them to be their authentic self.  Maybe it is time to release the old stereo types that have been enslaving you and your thought process and open your heart and mind to accept others for who they are and for what they believe they need to be appreciated for; because in truth, each one of us see ourselves differently than the world perceives us.  I do believe that each one of us deserves to reach our highest potential and as we do, we will most definitely be empowering ourselves for our highest and best good and highest and best way.

Study the movements of the Hummingbird and gain some wisdom

Tuesday, June 19, 2018

These birds have adapted to various climates and flowers over time just like many other species in the world.  A plant re-shapes and re-makes itself as it is found in new environments and so the birds’ beaks or bills are continually evolving to keep up with the plant life, so its beaks/bills will fit the shape of the flower or plant, and amazing enough this process is necessary for pollination.

My point here is that the smallest creatures on the planet are smart enough to know that if they want to eat and sustain themselves, they need to change and shift to survive.  Some many of us humans refuse to change, and shift and we expect society, our governments to do our bidding for us.  What a pity that man in his stubborn attitude and sense of entitlement has kept himself stuck and therefore caught in a dilemma.  In life, each one of us must take responsibility for our actions.  We are truly the only ones who can empower ourselves to be our best and greatest.

We can all learn something from this story and the life of the hummingbird.  These birds fly with both sides of their wings and their skills are quite awesome and versatile.  Man functions with both sides of his brain and his skills, if developed and utilized are equally awesome.  So, what I am trying to say here is that we could learn something about survival and change by studying the life of the hummingbird.  For its size the hummingbird is powerful.

Human beings are also powerful creatures and when challenged, have the ability to empower themselves in amazing ways.

Resources are another mechanism to think about.  The hummingbird is very resourceful, and it uses its skills in adapting from one way of functioning to another.  Humans are the most resourceful creatures on Earth, but we have one added bonus that sets us apart from the animal world and that is an intellect that allows us to delve into the truth of our existence.  Because of our advanced state, we can become quite inventive by using our imagination to take advantage of the vast array of materials available to us. If we are willing to continually coach ourselves to improve our attitude, behavior and environment in which we live, we can most definitely empower ourselves to be truly great.  But as I have noted before, only 20 % of the Human Species uses those resources to their greatest advantage.

There are so many distractions in the world today, such as video games and many other types of electronic gadgets that we have lost our vision and our purpose.   We tend to waste a great deal of time on the mundane and not sufficient time on positive thoughts or essential questions that will help us find solutions to life’s challenges.

Some of you will mock and laugh at this concept but I want to ask you one important question.  “As a human being do you realize your true identity and know the purpose of your existence?”  Because if these thoughts seem unimportant to you, then I can say with genuine sincerity, you are not utilizing the full power of your intellect to prosper and experience the grandness of success.  Wisdom is a beautiful attribute and when explored and sought can and will help you master yourself and your shortcomings.  As always, I encourage, all people, young and old to take responsibility for your actions.  Coach yourself towards your greatness and refuse to allow another person to cause you to shrink or dis-empower you.  No one knows you as well as you know yourself!  Daily tell you how wonderful you are and daily focus your attention on only positive and productive thoughts.  These two points will get you on the right path to being your best life coach!  The hummingbird would never have survived if it didn’t adapt itself to change.  You, too, must do the same!

Do you settle for a life of mediocrity?

Tuesday, June 5, 2018

Accountability and confidence are invaluable attributes to help anyone move in the positive direction towards success.  When you invoke and understand these 2 attributes, you just might make magic happen as you strive to transform your life and reach your highest potential.  Okay everyone –believe it or not, I actually read every comment that comes to my desk from this blog site—a few are spam, but most are from honest and interested people who are looking for ways to improve the quality of their lives.

Let’s put the jokesters aside and focus on you—the individual human being who really and sincerely wants to improve the quality and texture of your life.  But let us not stop there—I want to believe that you are also someone who has a dream and part of that dream is to try something new, so you will transform your life and reach your highest potential. This blog is all about sharing information that has the potentiality of helping you change when you are willing to listen to new ideas and try new ways.

You say:  I want to achieve it!  Am I right?  Well if I am, please read on and if I am wrong—just leave this site because it is not meant for you in the first place.

OKAY—LETS GET SERIOUS!  You care about where your money goes. You care about the free time that you enjoy but probably most of all you care about how you are going to get from plan “A” to plan “B”—Am I right?

Well if you are still with me—let’s get going—

This may be painful to some of you because the initial basis or foundation that I will discuss is—you have to be willing to do your work!

So, what do I mean about that, you might ask—let me start by saying, most people don’t get it—they are dense but most of all—unwilling to sweat – to change their old ways of thinking – and release their past hurts and pains.

 Are you listening?  Do any of you agree because if you do, then we can continue?

One of my first points is— anger, resentment and unforgiveness do not work.  They only hinder and block your flow.  Let me explain in simple terms.  It is like being constipated—blockage is blockage.  So, my first suggestion is let it all go because if you do not—you are only building a dam that will block your flow.  You cannot expect to transform your life or expect to reach your highest potential if you are completely blocked!

Are you still with me?  Let’s continue.  Second, breathe deeply–you got it!   This is the time to release and allow all your blocks including your fears and doubts to dissolve.  You absolutely cannot grow and succeed when your thoughts are focused on doubt and worry.  Take it from me—I am an expert on this subject—fear begets fear and guess what!  Doubt, anger and resentment beget the same.

So don’t you think it is time for you to try a new approach to living?  I am here for you and I am with you so let’s get started and begin the journey toward self-improvement and change.  I believe in you and your abilities

I believe in you, your power and your skills

But most of all—I want you to believe in ‘you’

I know you can do it because I have done it!

I know you are capable because I am just like you and I have discovered that I am capable

And I know that you will succeed because I have succeeded and anything I can do you will do better—all you need to do right now is keep trying.

Are you with me!  I believe in you so together we are an army of 2 (two).  Please do not let me down but most importantly—don’t give up on yourself because you are worth the effort!  Transformation does not happen overnight; it requires work, and sweat combined with courage and strength.

Let me hear from you so that I know you are on this journey towards your success.  Be proud of yourself and continually remind yourself of your power to be all that you choose to become.

We have all heard those words before –“Life is a journey not a destination” but as I heard someone speak them again today, I realized that they finally sunk into the recesses of my mind and I found myself saying:  “Yes—that is true!”.  Yet too often, I have discovered that most of us tend to perceive life as our final destination and by doing that, we lose the excitement and the joy of the process.  If I choose to reach my highest potentiality and manifest all that I desire in this lifetime, I am the one who needs to improve my attitude, behavior and surround myself in the right environment

The moment I realized that it is not about the end point but the journey, I began to have a different attitude about life. It is in the process that we maneuver in each day that we learn how to take advantage of certain opportunities. We are all continually journeying daily and it is our responsibility to stay alert, awake and focused on all that we want to manifest for our life.  And in the process of learning and growing—of seeking and finding, we move closer and closer towards reaching our highest potential.

I, for one, need to remember those words daily because I now realize that it is not unusual to crave or desire to experience all that we have dreamt about but while we are working towards our end goals, we would be better served if we could and would slow down and enjoy the process. For me it means that I need to relax more, smile more and definitely lighten up instead of taking everything so seriously.

I do not always understand the process but that is not the point.  Our Creator, God, or whatever we call him/her/it, has a plan for each one of us and works to inspire us to seek and walk on the pathway that was designed for us personally.  It is not for me to know the how or the why of the process.  My task and journey is to keep my sights on the process while I enjoy it.  I have learned that when I pay closer attention to the process, I am actually getting closer to reaching my highest potential.

I would like to enjoy my process more and I would like to relax more as I am experiencing the process yet as I think deeply about this, I realize that part of my journey is to simply trust the process as it is unfolding right in front of me.  That point, I believe, is the most difficult.

I do trust God and the Universal Flow but [and there goes my ‘But’ word] nonetheless, I am always interjecting and trying to see the end result even before it happens?  Does that make any sense to you?  I have come to realize that in my limited abilities, as a human, I have placed limitations on my beliefs and because of my limitations, I have sabotaged my outcome.  Wow—so how do I stop that cycle you might ask so I can manifest for my lives?  First, I need to be continually vigilant and conscious of my thoughts.  Second, I have discovered that meditation helps me to stay focused and grounded and Third, I need to keep walking.  By that I mean, do whatever is necessary to accomplish the end goal.  I certainly do not know the how or when but I do know that if I do not do something, nothing will happen.

I do not propose to claim that I have all the right answers, but as I continually experience life and move forward on my journey, I do understand that I am continually getting new creative ideas that have allowed me to use my imagination and inventiveness, which in turn opens the door to more possibilities.  We really do not know where our journey is going to take us but part of the fun is in the journey, the process so to speak.

Therefore, as I close, I offer a suggestion to you–start enjoying the journey; for after all, in truth, that is all we are able to do!

Our words can help heal the hurts in the world.  We are all thirsty for kindness, compassion and encouraging words whether are a conscious or unconsciously craving it.  Empower others with your simple and kind words and you will be doing the same for yourself.  Take time to make others feel loved and that you care for them.  Nothing is more rewarding than to help others rise higher and feel good about them selves.  You are a healer and within you is the power to help yourself heal as you do the same for others.  When you feel uplifted and happy, you will soon discover that your positive attitude contributes to you shifting your behavior and as a result, you will notice that your environment has also become enriched.

It is becoming normal to be disrespectful, short and contrary towards others. We can use our words to heal others as well as ourselves or we can use them to offend, harm and cause despair.

People respond to others who use their words to heal, to bring forth a voice of encouragement and health-giving compliments.  When you see a friend, partner or child that you know, say something kind and thoughtful.  In truth, you may never know what your moments of kindness can bring to another.  We all respond to praise so why not make the time to say something that will uplift the spirit of another?  We all need encouragement, support and kindness.  You have the power to heal your life and the lives of others by simply using your words to bring healing in all your relationships.  One compliment can have a positive impact for a lifetime! A gentle tongue brings healing!

During this season of giving, it would be a real act of kindness to give the gift of our Power Angel cards to someone you care about.  This simple gesture just might offer moments of compassion, inspiration and empowerment to them.  It doesn’t have to be something big.  It is the small, thoughtful gifts that are the most rewarding.  Our Power Angel cards are available by clicking on the words ‘Power Angel.’  It will bring you to the order purchase page.  Be the helping hard and friend who reminds others that they have a team around them who are ready, willing and able to come to their aid all the time.   As we come to the end of this year, please make a promise to yourself to empower yourself to do good in the world.  We desperately need it.

Joy is a Decision
Wednesday, December 20, 2017

Joy is a choice you make for your life!  Many people don’t get it; they go along in life feeling deprived, let down and not worthy to receive joy and a wonderful sense of inner peace.

Anxiety disorders affect a large population of people in the world.  A worldwide study shows that those who have the most reasons to feel joyful actually feel depressed.  Whether you choose joy or depression for your life’s journey it still remains that you are the one who has the freedom to choose whatever state of mind you want to experience.  I don’t care where you live in the world, you can be deprived by your leaders of a bountiful life; however, no one but you can determine your state of mind.  Your ability to feel inner peace and joy is controlled only by you!    When you feel emotionally challenged, that is the perfect time for you to become your own life coach!  If you are feeling weak then use the tools that are available to you to shift your energies.  The Power Angels are available to all human beings; however, we are the ones who must call them into our lives and seek their help.

Joy is contagious!  Find those who are joyful and you too will catch the wave and become affected by the same joy!  If you want real joy to fill you and your life, invite God’s wonderful messengers, your Power Angels into your world.  Take part in the amazing life that is available to you!  Ignite your own coaching skills by become your personal life coach.  Inner peace was not just given to a few; it is a gift given freely and available to all who seek it.

Where does the source of joy come from?  It actually comes from our Heavenly Father!  It is part of our DNA, it is who our Creator is, He is a joyful spirit!

Joy is the fruit of the spirit.  When you commit your life to believing in the spirit who gives you breath, then you will enjoy the fruits of the spirit.  The power is within you to develop the best possible attitude and behavioral habits that you can achieve.  When you coach yourself on a continual basis, you will soon discover that only you can change your point of view!

Zephaniah 3:17 states: “The Lord your god is with you, the Mighty warrior who saves.  He will take great delight in you; in his love he will no longer rebukes you, but will rejoice over you with singing.”   Decide today to be joyful and watch your world change for the better.   Your Power Angels can help!

You are never alone!

Tuesday, December 12, 2017

Need some support and encouragement? I created our ‘Huggin Pillows’ to help you feel like you have reinforcement and a team by your side caring about you. Each one of us wants to be loved and shown that we are special. Just like a child holds on to his or her teddy bear or blanket, you, too, can hold onto your ‘Huggin Pillow” or simply prop it up on your bed or chair as a reminder that you are not alone. Your Power Angel teams are with you always ready, willing and able to help you through your difficult times or joyful moments.
I have developed this product that will remind you constantly of the presence of your Power Angels. I have called it the “Huggin Pillow.” It is made in USA. Pillow size is 16″x12″ of 100% polyester cluster fiber and covered in all cotton. The pillowcase, which I designed features many of the power angels that I personally connect with daily. While I have experienced many challenges, struggles and heart-breaks in my lifetime, I have NEVER experienced debilitating sickness or disease. I take no medication or no pills and I live a healthy lifestyle emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually and you can do the same if and when you are willing to make the right choices.
My “Huggin Pillow” will help you change your point of view about your life and it will be a positive reminder that you, too, can enjoy a renewed state of living with greater peace of mind and contentment each and every day. I want you to know and believe that the Power Angels are always with you and care about you!
Every season should be a season of giving both to self and to others. However, as we are in the Holiday Season, I ask you to take a look at our “Huggin Pillow” because it is an awesome opportunity for you to cuddle with your special Power Angels and ask for their support, encouragement and guidance. Keep one on your bed, sleep with it or simply put it in a place that will remind you that you are not alone. There is great love and protection for you. Our “Huggin Pillows” are available on our web site and on our Facebook page too! (www.facebook.com/litlmessengers)

Joan Marie Ambrose — Author, Creative Writer, Motivational Speaker
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Speaking from experience

Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Do you like yourself?

November 27, 2017

Do you feel good about who you are?  I hope you can answer “YES” to the above question; however, if you can’t, I am here to tell you that you need to be bold enough to feel good about you. Being against yourself will never help you yet it will most definitely keep you stuck in a negative and defeatist way.  It is time for you to empower yourself right now! Become your own life coach and repeat these words to yourself daily!  Who you are and what you have become is good enough.  Even though you are working towards being a better person and even feel as though you are struggling with your character or lack thereof, I want you to feel good, worthy and pleased with yourself right now.  None of us are perfect!  We all have some things to work on yet I believe you need to be at peace with yourself if you are seeking to heal your life in the best way.  Feel worthy and

valued in spite of your shortcomings.  To live in a state of inner peace and tranquility, you need to feel good about yourself, that is in your mind, body and spirit.

What we all need to understand is that we all make mistakes.  Of course, we all need to improve our character traits and our disposition yet while we are working on the process of our individual life’s journey, we need to know that we are a work in progress and being refined moment by moment and second by second.  Obviously we all have weaknesses and might be struggling; however, we must believe that during the process or the journey, we are moving in the right direction.  Our behavior and attitudes might not be something that we are proud of, yet I don’t want you to focus on your weak traits; instead put your focus on what is right with you.  Empower yourself to maintain a right attitude! I am here to remind you that you need to always remember: “You are a Child of the most High God”; and therefore, in his eyes you are loved, cherished and valued! Don’t be down on yourself; as a substitute, start feeling good about you in a healthy and positive way. It’s time for you to value and appreciate yourself as you keep your head held high and tell yourself that you have a lot to offer others and you.  In other words, I want you to become your own life coach and teach you to enjoy the good traits  you possess as you are working on those traits that need your attention.

The enemy does not want you to feel good about who you are and where you are in your life’s journey.  Don’t fall into that trap!  He is trying to rob you of your joy and inner peace; you must be strong and courageous enough to value, respect and appreciate all of you right now. The most important relationship you can have is with yourself, which is why you need to take care of you. We all want to make improvements with our lives yet I want to remind you to maintain a healthy relationship with yourself if you want to experience a happy life with inner peace.  Sometime you need to be your own life coach and empower yourself to look in the mirror and say, ”I like who I am and want to continue to improve myself because I am worth it!”

Every day coach yourself to live your life to the fullness.  Don’t rob you of all your grandness!  Of course we all have weaknesses and are vulnerable to our failings yet we also possess great virtues.  You need to empower yourself and remind yourself that you are a work in progress and continually reinforce your assets. Feel blessed just being you because you are more than enough!

Be Compassionate!

November 20, 2017

On our Facebook page and in various articles we often speak about connecting with your Power Angels™ who are messengers of the Lord. They have been commissioned to come to Earth to give aid, support, encouragement and vision to all of us.

My Power Angel friends are my closest confidents! They are my special team, my private secretaries and my helpmates. I have spent a great deal of time introducing them to all of you because I want you, too, to share in the wealth of their guidance, information and support. Now you can tap into their energy daily by picking and reading one of the 28 inspirational Power Angels™ cards that we have created for adults. We actually have the Power Angel Cards designed to help children too as well as a similar set designed to offer empowerment to adults. I invite you to go to our Facebook fan page and/or our web site to see the cards and make your purchase. They are a great holiday gift for you and all your loved ones.

PRACTICE living a life of self-empowerment and sound choices! Purchase today a box of our Adult Power angel Cards for yourself and all those whom you value and love. It will be a constant reminder to you that Your Power Angels™ can and will help support, encourage and improve your state of mind. When you change what you believe you change what you do.

While our “Power Angel” Cards won’t guarantee an improved state of mind, body or spirit, I know for sure they will help you change your point of view about your life as they give you encouragement, inspiration and an action plan to implement. They will be a positive reminder that you, too, can enjoy a renewed state of living with greater peace of mind and contentment!

You can choose to live with Inner Peace

November 13, 2017

Bitterness is poison that affects your attitude and the way you live your life.  You may have a good reason to feel bitterness but it does not improve the quality of your life.  It does instead alter your attitude and behavior and causes you to live without joy and inner peace.  When you feel upset or bitter, maybe this is the time to call in your Power Angels to help you calm down, change your thoughts and install in you seeds of love and laughter.

Make sure no seeds of bitterness take hold in your world. A bitter root produces bitter fruit.  If you are like me and choose to live with inner peace, then you need to let go and let God fight your battles so you can guard your heart with love, joy and happiness.  It is easy to let what is on the outside get on the inside of your heart.  You only have so much emotional energy at your disposal each day. The more you dwell on the negativity in your life, the harder it becomes for you to feel happy, whole and satisfied.  Don’t waste your precise energy and let it lead you in the wrong direction by focusing on bitterness and resentment.  You can choose in live with inner peace by shifting your thoughts, your energy and your emotions.

Feed your mind, body and spirit with the fruits of love, laughter and joy.  Refuse to allow your thoughts, attitude and behavior to be sour, resentful and bitter.  If there is someone or something that continually enters your thoughts and disrupts your attitude, pray for inner peace and contentment.  Your Power Angels are a great source of encouragement, improved vision and self-empowerment, call them into your mind and let them help you change your thoughts.  It is easy to dwell on the negative but when you believe you have powerful energy to change your thinking, you will shift gears and move into a feeling of contentment and inner peace.

We all have unfair things that happen in our lives and if you continually recall them and focus on those resentful thoughts, you will eventually become contaminated with negativity.  Let it go!  If something is taken away from you, release it and begin to explore and seek out things that will allow you to find a refreshing and new way of living and acting.  Don’t live bitter; guard your heart and refuse to allow a negative situation or circumstance to contaminate your mind, body or spirit.  Stay pure in all areas of your life and believe that there are better plans waiting for you to experience and enjoy.  Your Power Angels are always ready to come to your assistance if you let them. Don’t live in your pain and negative experiences. Don’t let the enemy take you out and control your life.  You can’t do it on your own; you like me need help and encouragement to overcome your challenges and struggles.  You are better than any negative feeling or thinking. May I encourage you to choose to live your life with inner peace?  If you want to live peaceful you need to do it on purpose…it is a choice that you need to make!

Stop forcing something to happpen

November 7, 2017

We spend too much time trying to get others approval, acceptance and love. Stop relying on people and begin to believe in yourself, your talents and your ability to achieve all that belongs to you.  You do not need to force relationships!  It’s time for you to feed your end goal!  You can’t go forward if you are focused on the wrong people and the wrong direction.  Get your mind going in the right direction.  To reach your highest potential you need to stay disciplined and vigilant about the life you seek.  You have greatness within you; it’s time for you to empower yourself and start thinking some new thoughts that will nurture and encourage you.  If you have to force the relationship so that you feel like you belong, then they are the wrong relationship for you.  Become your own relationship expert and learn to empower yourself to make wise choices

Don’t forget who you are! Keep an open mind and open heart that will motivate you and allow the greatness to flow to you.

Stop expecting loyalty and friendship from people who can’t even give you honesty!  Stop forcing things to happen!  It’s time to slow down, reflect on the right path you need to take and begin to seek the path that will allow your life to flow so you can and will reach your highest potential.

I have learned in my life that if something isn’t going my way, it just might be the hand of God telling me to stop wasting my time on those people or experiences that won’t help me reach my highest potential.

When you are at peace, you are in a position of power. When your life is flowing, you are in a position of power and when you choose to examine all your relationships for what they are, you are indeed being the best relationship expert you can be. In that moment you are truly empowering yourself!

Take a deep breath and let go.  Move in the direction of your dreams.  The real victory in life is when you knowingly accept what is in front of you in the present moment and then willingly be patient to let everything unfold for your highest and best good in the highest and best way.  Stop forcing things to happen!

Don’t Drift Away From Your Possibilities

October 31, 2017

We tend to drift in our lives and give into negative circumstances; in other words, we lose sight of our goal.  If you are like me and desire to manifest for your life your highest potentiality then you must be consistent and tie your hopes to your Heavenly Father’s promise. He is the one who created you and said you will fulfill your destiny.  If you are in doubt because it has been a long time waiting and therefore you forget to keep your focus, then I want you to know you absolutely possess great power within to succeed.  No one said your journey would be easy and smooth. You may have a good reason to give into your limiting thoughts; I am not denying the possibilities of defeat in life. We often live in worry, doubt and fear yet I want you to make time to regroup your thoughts and re-program your mind so as to keep your hope in the Lord.

It’s time for you to stir up your hope, maintain positive thoughts and believe in all good possibilities that are deemed yours.  If you keep your mind, body and spirit anchored to hope and possibilities, you will in the right timing reach your highest potential.  You have a purpose and you will manifest in your life but you are the one who must keep the right perspective and stay strong.

Our struggles and challenges are not meant to stop us but rather to strengthen us.  You have a purpose and you will fulfill it if you choose to stay focused. I believe in you! What was started in your life will be accomplished!  That is your promise.  It is deemed for you to reach for your best life yet; however, if you continually limit your beliefs, your thoughts and let go of your anchor of hope, you will drift away from your purpose and lose your way.

Don’t let other people talk you out of what’s in your heart.  You need to continually believe in all possibilities.  Believe you will receive all that you have dreamt about.  One of your major jobs right now is to stay hopeful!  Stay anchored in hope and possibilities not doom or gloom.

The enemy doesn’t want you to be free and hopeful; He would like you to feel depressed and defeated!  Don’t allow that to happen to you and your life. This is the time to empower yourself! When you start to feed into a pity party, shift your thoughts and move into positive possibilities.  You can do it!  I know!  That negative state of mind is easy to slide into and I have been there often, however, when that happens, I dig my heels in; I become stronger and alert.  That is when I change my thoughts and beliefs and re-direct my thoughts to those that will serve me so I can and will reach my highest potentiality!  Never doubt that God has you in the palm of his hand! You don’t know the whole picture. Stay in faith, hope and possibilities!  Don’t allow the storms of life to weaken you, instead, stay grounded, confident and determined to anchor yourself to remain in the state of peace. That is how you will most definitely manifest for your life as you reach your highest potential.

Stay anchored to hope and possibilities!  Empower yourself to stay encouraged and remain uplifted!  You can do it!

Keep a Good Attitude

October 25, 2017

Just as in the story of Job in the bible, Our Heavenly Father allows the enemy to tempt and do all he can to trip us up.  When we stay in faith and keep a good attitude, we can and will survive as we pass through the storm.  We will, however, not only survive we will also start to thrive as we are also propelled into our greatness.  When we choose to heal our lives in all areas, we will be equipped to eventually flourish and exceed our highest expectations.

In times of difficulty, we especially need to keep our faith, even when we don’t understand.  You may feel as though you are being pulled back and destroyed, however, when you remember to keep a good attitude in spit of all the difficulties you are facing, your life will heal and you will begin to thrust forward just like in the story of Job.

Our Creator allows us to experience our difficult times; those are the time when we learn to extend ourselves,  to reach out and help others and even grow in our own inner power and strength. If you continue to stay in faith and continue to discipline your self, you will soon see that you have been shown new and different ways to grow, change and possibly re-direct energy into new endeavors and new possibilities.  When you stay in faith and maintain a good attitude, you will eventually reach your hearts desires.  What you are going through right now is not your life’s destiny; it is just a season that needs to pass.  Trust that it will!  Keep a good and healthy attitude and you will in the right timing reach your highest potentiality. When things don’t go your way, please don’t sink into a state of depression or doubt.  That is simply, like Job experienced, a small chapter in your life.

Yes, you may be going through dark times, but when you pass through this time believe that in the perfect timing you will reap all the blessings you deserve.  You will reap the benefits, you will reach your highest potential and you will heal your life emotionally, physically, financially and mentally as you continually stand strong and remain in faith.  Your job is to dare to believe that you will receive all you seek!

Live in joyful expectancy! Before you reach your highest potential and before you receive all the healing for your life, be appreciative and in gratitude knowing that it is coming your way.  Keep a good attitude and say and think all the positive and healthy words and thoughts that will rise you up and show your Creators you trust in him no matter what is happening right now.  Be like Job; in spite of all the challenges and harsh times, he refuse to give up or give into the enemy.  Remain strong and courageous and keep a good and healthy attitude. That is how you will heal your life!

How Do You Love?

October 18, 2017

Love is both a gift and a task. So how do you love?  If God so loved us that he willingly died for us, then we can learn much from His example and work on learning more about how to love each other.  To heal your life requires you to feel and share love.  It is impossible to truly live in joy and transform your life if you are unwilling to be open to give and receive love.

There is so much pain and hurt in the world and we humans seem to be on a mission to destroy each other rather than help and support each other.  Love is the only answer!

Maybe it is time for all of us to pray for greater love?  It is never too late to learn, grow and change.  Some say it is never safe to love because you will get hurt.  True in some ways, however, to love at all is to be vulnerable.  Whether you are connected to another human or animal, you are vulnerable to them.  We cannot be perfectly safe from others or anything for that matter.

Practice love every single day; one loving act at a time will change your life and enable you to heal your life in numerous ways.  To be better at loving means that you need to take action steps, such as, offer a smile to another, be willing to listen to a child or friend in a caring manner and even to be willing to offer a helping hand to some one who is carrying a burden.    Don’t look for love; instead, open your eyes and heart to see that it is all around you!

To love others is the greatest rewards you will ever get in your life. Are you getting prepared to make the most out of your life, to manifest in your life more love, joy and contentment?  It is amazing that what the world needs the most yet is too often thought of as something that is foolish, is love.   Anger, horror movies, extreme take out of others for personal gain is the mantra of the day.  Those who seek great fame and fortune often turn a blind eye to the value and benefits that love possesses.  They seem to lack the desire and know how to spread and share love because they haven’t yet recognized its power to heal people’s lives.   

Understanding true love is not as difficult as you might think.  It begins when you change your attitude, behavior and the environment in which you place yourself daily.  If you are seeking to heal your life so you can transform your life, you absolutely need to make a commitment to your mind, body and spirit and state that you willingly choose to welcome more joy and love into your world.

Be a source of encouragement to others!  Open your heart to be both the giver and received of love.  Look at your hands and bless them—let them be the vehicle that will give and receive love, caring and sharing to others as well as to yourself.  When you do, you will see and feel the healing powers of love filling your life!

Do you feel weary?

October 11, 2017

You are no different than all of us!  We all get weary occasionally

Do you feel vulnerable?

October 3, 2017

Are you holding back because you feel vulnerable to revealing your true self?  Each one of us is dealing with something and I believe that is why we tend to hold back our honesty and instead put on a mask to hid our true identity.

 I feel confident that we are all trying to bring out our best side, our best strengths yet to be vulnerable means to be open to expose our inner depth and beauty.  We all struggle with our issues and shortcomings yet I think that part of our opportunity to explore more growth and possibilities is more readily available to us when we keep our heart open to receive.  It is difficult to reach our highest potential when we’re shut down.

I have found that feeling vulnerable and knowing that I want to be strong but at times I am weak is a truth that I bring into my reality frequently. We all have doubts, certain degrees of fears and even moments of anger yet when I experience those emotions I have grown to understand that that is the time for me to stay alert because I still have some work to do. I know that there are numerous layers to my emotional state that I still have to examine. I don’t want my emotions to rule my life.  I know I am on a journey and as I continually move forward, I will experience many different pieces to my personal puzzle.  My story, just like all of your stories, requires me to take one step at a time, as I am being gentle with my self.  It is all a part of my process of growth.  The more I progress, the closer I get towards reaching my highest potential.

I have learned to pray and pray often for my clarity of vision and purpose. I choose to seek a life where I can enjoy a wonderful sense of inner peace.  I realize I need help, guidance and support and I am constantly seeking that for my life.

When I am honest with myself and my God, I set myself free to walk in the light.  I now see my weaknesses and my struggles and I pray for the courage and strength to be bold so I can and will fulfill my destiny.  Living in a calm and wonderful state of inner peace is one of my goals.

To be vulnerable is not a sin or something that is bad but rather something that should be acknowledged, valued and respected.  Maybe you need to take the pressure off yourself and be willing to face your shortcomings.  We are not perfect!  We all have something to work on and to improve and even something to face that just might be our wake up call.  Quite possibly our message is: “ begin to change your ways so you can make peace with yourself.”

Isn’t it time to stop pretending to be something that you are not and be honest with your self? Get real with your inner self, your soul so you, too, can enjoy a full life filled with inner peace and contentment.  Know your true identity!  Look in the mirror and be vulnerable with your authentic self.  Whether we are seekers of our truth consciously or unconsciously, we all seek to reach our highest potential.  Start today to get on the right path.  You will know the right path when you finally feel free as you are living with a real sense of inner peace.

Let go of shame and guilt!  We all have something to hid and keep in the shadows yet when we are vulnerable and give from our whole heart, we begin to realize that being vulnerable is something that is transformational.

Is your life ruled by fear or a sense of freedom?

September 26, 2017

This article is well timed because in our country we have just come out of two bad hurricanes and wild fires. We can all find a reason to be negative and live in fear, worry and self-pity but if you refuse to give these negative emotions your attention, you can easily move beyond them and arrive at the door of inner peace. It is easy to get comfortable in dysfunction and accept these needy conditions in difficult times. If, however, when you tend to be your own life coach and talk to your mind and body in ways that will empower you, you will be able to transform your life.

Nothing that has happened to you was placed in front of you to stop you from reaching your destiny. Coach yourself and say: “Self-pity, be gone! Fear and worry will not over-power me! I am a child of the most High God and I believe with the help of His Power Angels, I can release my fear, doubt and worry and shift my thinking so I will feel free to enjoy great inner peace.”

Don’t discount your inner strength or power! Don’t move into a scarcity mindset and don’t allow your self-talk to weaken you. You have the ability to break the curse of fear and move into a wonderful sense of freedom by praying for a positive mental attitude. It’s time for you to set a new standard for your life. Be an example to others. You can take your family to a new level and show them the power of discipline, courage and inner strength as you become your own life coach. Yes, it takes effort and self-control; however, when you have the determination to heal your life and refuse to follow the masses into fear, worry and doubt, you not only transform your life for your highest and best good but you achieve a wonderful sense of freedom and live with inner peace.

If you are seeking a life with a wonderful sense of freedom, tell your controlled mind that you are releasing all the chains of your limiting beliefs that you have been content with in the past. You can and will be successful as you continually boast yourself up by being your own life coach. Coach yourself to ask for courage and a strong faith in your Higher Source. Occupy your mind and body with positive thoughts, actions and behavior. Keep your environment surrounded with gratitude for all that you have and all that you hope to receive. Live your life with anticipated expectancy.

Don’t let the past dictate your present or future. Pray and pray some more to the one who created you. Ask His Power Angels to continue to protect you, strengthen your mind, encourage you to feel a wonderful sense of inner peace. Be your own life coach and continually fill your mind and heart with only upbeat and positive words, thoughts and ideas. Don’t limit yourself; choose to transform your life by coaching yourself 24/7 with the belief and inner knowingness that with your Creator on your side, you can and will improve the quality of your mind, body and spirit. You are stronger than you think! Isn’t it time for you to fill yourself with confidence, love, respect and the wonderful sense of freedom where inner peace resides?

 Don’t be a slave to negative thinking!

September 20, 2017

The enemy would love to have you remain a slave to your life, your past experiences, your hurts, pains and rejections. Just because things haven’t worked out for you in the past doesn’t mean you have to continually struggle and believe the lie that you are a slave to your past.   It is your job, your responsibility, to tell the enemy that you are indeed, a child of the most High Creator of the Universe.  That means you are free and whole to think positive wonderful thoughts as you excel in your life.  Don’t allow your past to dictate your life today or tomorrow.   You do not need to succumb to the addictions of negative thoughts.  You were created to be free—a free thinker, a free spirit, a blessed victorious person.

Some people are so content and comfortable being a slave to their mind that they don’t think they are worthy of moving out of that state.  Don’t let a poverty mentality dictate your life!  You absolutely have resources that will help you move away from your lack.  You absolutely have the ability to call in your _{Power Angels} into your life and ask them to help you learn how to empower yourself.  You absolutely have, as part of your birthright, the desire built within that will allow you to break away from your limited beliefs and be strengthened to move away from a slave mentality and accept an abundance mentality.

Isn’t it time for you to empower yourself and start believing that you deserve to live like a child of your Creator, that you deserve to move into a renewed sense of worth, a renewed outlook that will lead you towards reaching your highest potential?

Change your mental outlook–refuse to accept a slave mentality and begin to realize that you are entitled to accept a healthy, positive mindset.  If you are feeling uncomfortable and feel unworthy, call in your _{Power Angels} to show you how to gain clarity of vision, improved self-confidence because you are destined to do great things.  You can reach your highest potential if and when you change your beliefs so you will change the way you live.

Shake off the slave mentality and begin having an empowered mentality.  If you want to move towards a victorious life, you have to do something to make it happen.  Empower yourself today to break the chains of negative thinking and believe you deserve to reach your highest potential.  You can feel whole and content; however, you are the one who has to gain in strength and fight for the change you seek for your life.  If you feel weak, remember to ask your _{Power Angels} to help you and they will.  You cannot see yourself as a slave and at the same time reach your highest potentiality!  You have seeds of greatness within you so start acting like that.  Be bold and know that you have resources at your disposal to call in and give you the support you are seeking.

You have all the resources at your disposal!

September 12, 2017

How many people are missing out on receiving life’s fullest because they are not making the time or at least utilizing the right energy to take advantage of all the resources at their disposal?

It is true that the Internet and Google itself has offered all of us who live today many advantages over our ancestors.  If you are one who has taken the time to tap into some of these resources, you are truly way above the curve.  I myself utilize all these resources daily because I am curious and a seeker of knowledge, wisdom and an improved understanding of information that enlightens my mind, body and spirit.  I guess you can say that I enjoy empowering myself because I choose to take control over my destiny. I refuse to give my power away to another! I want to transform my life in a healthy way; it is my life’s journey to live it in the best possible way.   I must admit, some days it is a struggle because challenges arise daily!  There are always ups and downs that I have to face or jump over yet I am always working on keeping my mind alert, positive and moving in the right direction.  I am continually convincing my mind and body to stay on course, be disciplined and determined to push forward even when I would like to be lazy and rest on my laurels.

Most people don’t realize that our lives are multifaceted.  In that I mean that our minds, bodies and spirit are intertwined and need to be in balance with each other in order to function properly.  Some have mastered the art of exercising their bodies to stay fit, others have trained their minds to follow their lead and that is most valuable in pursuing one’s goals but developing our spiritual side is often left in the shadows and given very little thought.  Our Creator has provided us all with the necessary resources that will allow us to better understand our authentic self, our soul and how it serves us.  Our Creator is a kind and loving God yet He is also one who uses tough love to get us to pay attention and follow His lead.  Once again I must admit that this journey into self is not an easy journey yet I say with delight it is an awesome awakening that has only one purpose—to enable each one of us to live a life with a healthy mind, body and spirit.  This is accomplished because our Creator provides each one of us with the light, love and truth to use all the resources at our disposal to empower ourselves and to transform our lives as we enjoy each moments with contentment, inner peace and happiness.

You have the ability to have a bountiful, prosperous life yet if you limit your minds capacity and your desire to open your mind to new possibilities, you are not taking advantage of all the resources at your disposal.  If you or I choose not to utilize our mind to it fullest potentiality we will never be able to fully transform our lives for our highest and best good.  Our greatest blessings come when we are open to empowering ourselves to our greatest capacity.  One of the best ways to acquire the vastness of knowledge for your best good is by invoking your Power Angels™ to come to your assistance.  I always search for the wisdom I am trying to understand from my angel friends and I depend on them to give me the support I seek and need.

To unravel the complexities of your life and understand why you do what you do requires you to explore your path to your enlightenment.  We all have a purpose and function and it is our job and responsibility to discover that while we are living on this planet Earth.  Prayer is one of the most beneficial tools at your disposal as well as making friends with your Power Angels™ who have been given to you by your Creator to help you on your journey.  Your Power Angels™ are always eager to help you learn, grow and mature; don’t shy away from them, instead, call them into your daily life.  Meditation is another tool; it is your gateway to self-awareness and mindfulness.  It enables you to move beyond thought and know yourself better.

I am here to tell you that you can transform your life if you are willing to empower yourself to the fullest.  Are you willing to take advantage of all the resources available so you can understand all your relationships, your life; your reality so you can expand your mind, body and spirit in the most beneficial way for you?  The best way for you to live your live to your fullest potentiality is by making choices to make the most of your resources.

Enlightenment is a life-long journey.  When you make a wise choice, you immediately improve your mental well being, your spiritual well being and your bodily well being.  90% of all of our chronic conditions are influenced by our lifestyle!  Don’t let life discourage you! Use your resources of time, energy and focus wisely!  I hope you will make use of these insights and begin your personal journey today!

It takes courage to stay in faith!

September 6, 2017

Life has been difficult for many lately, floods, fires, lack of funds; conflict in government and confusion is surrounding all of us.  The Earth is convulsing and its people are suffering.  These are certainly challenging times for everyone yet I am here to say: “Please stay in faith.” When things change; life gets tricky!  That’s when you need to call on your inner strength and muster up all the courage you can to stand firm and be disciplined.

If you truly want to transform your life, you will need to stay focused on your end goal and believe you will surely achieve it. Even though what you are facing is difficult and you can’t see the end it is important for you to live in faith nor fear. Don’t get discouraged by the process.  We are all on a journey. To transform your life requires you to pass through difficult times.  There may be forces against you but if you want to live free of these challenging times, you must stay in faith.  The process may be rough and the steps may be tricky but do not let the opposition or struggles stop you.  The enemy would like to see you give up and give in to your weaknesses.  The enemy has great power but your Power Angels are stronger and with the Almighty Father as their leader, they will keep pushing on your behalf until the enemy is defeated.

Be encouraged!  Stay strong! Refuse to let the enemy be victorious!  We may be in the fire, in the flood or in the famine but this too shall pass; it is only temporary.  The troubles that you are going through right now are only the steps on the journey along the way.  They are not the end goal nor are they meant to defeat you.  Don’t settle in the middle of your journey and become weak, keep moving forward knowing that your Heavenly Father will help you reach your highest potential.  With your Heavenly Father and His Power Angels on your side, you will be victorious.  You may not see anything yet but this is the time for you to believe and walk forward in trust.  Your Heavenly Father and His Power Angels are working behind the scenes and are clearing the way for you.

Don’t be conformed by the ways of the evil one but be willing to transform your life.  You absolutely have the inner strength to reach your highest potential by continually reminding your mind to stay positive, stay in faith and know, without a shadow of doubt, that in spite of the difficulty you are facing, you will reach your highest and best.  You can make it through these dark times because you are being divinely guided and encouraged by your Power Angels.  It is your job to be conscious of what you put into your mind.  Refuse to give in to the negative thoughts or feelings just because you don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel.  Train your mind to stay disciplined to focus only on hopeful and positive thoughts 24/7.  You can do it if you choose to be an overcomer.  I realize it is difficult to do!  I, too, have had my share of struggles and challenges but each difficulty has only made me believe even more deeply that my Heavenly Father is working to shape and mold me to be a better and more disciplined and patient person.  These are all qualities that I have needed to improve upon in my life.

In life we will all have days of trouble, opposition and difficulty.  Please know your trouble has an expiration date!  It is not how your life is meant to turn out; it is only a path you need to walk through before you reach your destination.  Just when your life appears to be overshadowed by doom and gloom, know—believe and trust that there is a Force greater than any opposition that is trying to take you out.  To transform your life requires much trust and faith in a Source greater than you.  Your Heavenly Father is in control of the Universe.  He formed it and can transform it for your highest and best good.
No one said the journey is going to be easy or smooth.  There are many difficult times ahead; however, I want you to know when things get tough, discipline your mind, heart and spirit to believe this is your time to stay in faith and feel empowered.  You are in a period of growth and development.  Your spirit is being fine-tuned to mature and awaken for your finest benefit.  Never stop trusting!  Never give up and never doubt that your Heavenly Father is in control.  When you are being your best and keeping your mind under control you are moving in the right direction.

The Greatest Battle we Fight is Between our Ears

August 29, 2017

Think about those words for a moment!  Maybe it’s time to stop doubting and struggling and start making positive changes for your life so you can empower yourself to reach your highest potential? Stop setting up roadblocks or procrastinating in ways that continually cause you to live in anger, frustration and stress instead stay in faith and believe that you can live out of a place of peace, a place of trust!  At times you will be challenged and faced with great fear but I want you to know that when you continue to be your best and refuse to let your mind manipulate your feelings you will be the victor and you will receive the healing for your life. Through increased knowledge and that belief you will be prepared to empower yourself for your highest and best good in the highest and best way.

When you refuse to worry and stay stressed out, you are proving to yourself and others that you are placing your trust in your Creator. Express gratitude even it you have not yet experienced the outcome. You are gaining in strength, courage and the wisdom that shows the world and your Creator that you are surrendering all your troubles to Him.

A great question to ask yourself is: “How much of your mind is devoted to negative and resentful or hurtful thoughts? “  You see your mind is a powerful instrument that can either lift you up or bury you.  In order to heal your life in all aspects, that is, physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually, you absolutely need to select carefully the thoughts and feelings you want to focus on and bring into your daily living.  Nothing can destroy you in any way when you discipline your mind to stay calm, confident and grounded in the belief that Your Heavenly Father has your back and will deliver you so you can reach your highest potential.  Gratitude is amazing!  The more you are grateful, the better your life becomes.

Amazing things happen when you stay in faith and trust your Creator.  You may face many difficulties yet it is important to know that you will be brought through the difficulties with flowing colors.  You are protected, loved and cared for so know you will be brought to the other side.  Live your life from a place

of peace.  Your Creators got this problem and all problems under his control.  Your steps are being directed; listen to your heart.  Dare to trust and believe!  Each one of us are continually being tempted, challenged and faced with difficult situations; I want you to know you are not alone and you are definitely not the only one who is walking through challenging times.  Your greatest salvation is knowing that your Creator is walking along with you guiding your way.  Continually feed your faith with beautiful thoughts and positive words that will keep you uplifted so you will, without a shadow of a doubt, reach your highest potential.  Continually empower yourself!

Remain confident; when trouble comes, know you are surrounded by your Creators wisdom.  To heal your life from all challenging experiences, you must stay in a state of inner peace and gratitude.  Stay strong even when it feels like your life is falling apart.  Change your perspective and switch over to faith and trust.  In the right moment you will reap the rewards!

Stay committed to your goals

August 23, 2017

_{Times do get tough; sometimes we want to give up because things don’t seem fair.  We get discouraged and think maybe what I want isn’t meant to be for me, yet I want you to know just because your life gets tough, don’t give up, give in or get so discouraged that you settle for mediocrity.}

You do have a reason and purpose for living so stop questioning yourself. You need to stay strong, courageous and stop doubting your capabilities and talents.  _{In order to manifest for your life you need to stay strong and pray for courage.  Transformation for your life doesn’t happen over night. Transformation requires you to believe and feel your change, develop a knowingness that as you continue to stay in faith, your life will improve.  There is no power greater than the power of the Almighty Father!  There is power in your words and your thoughts so remember to use your words for your highest and best good.}  Your confidence level increases when you believe and place your complete trust in your Creator.

Stay committed to your dreams and your goals.  Know that your answers are coming.  You have an important seed planted within you that needs to be nurtured, watered and developed so you can blossom and bloom.  Keep your focus, stand in faith and trust that your Heavenly Father has a plan and a timetable that will be fulfilled.

If there is a delay in your plan and keeping you from your abundance, understand that there are forces that are against you and even working against you but with God on your side, no force of darkness can overpower you! Your Power Angels are working on your behalf! Stay in faith because it is just a matter of time when your better day will be shown to you. To transform your life so you can manifest for your lifeyour heart’s desires takes time, planning and due diligence.

_{Through practice and a strong trust and belief, you need to stand in your faith and let the promise made to you take root.  If you stay in faith and continue to believe, you will transform your life and you will manifest for you life in the right time and delivered in the right place.  Never doubt that the battle is the Lords and the victory is mine!  The forces that are for you are greater than the forces that are against you!   Your Power Angels are fighting for you and clearing the way for you.}  Believe and trust that it is so!

_{It is important and necessary that you stay in faith, continually believe and make it a point to express words and thoughts of gratitude on your lips.  When you stand in your delight and feel your healing, your abundance, your dreams being realized, you are showing your Heavenly Father that you believe and trust in Him and his promise to deliver to you.  What would benefit you more than anything is that you need to remain good-natured with a good heart and with gratitude that what you are seeking is being sent to you.  Do your part, continue to make plans and use your imagination to create positive ways that will lead you in the right direction.  Believe me when I say there are times when it gets difficult and you feel weak but I want to encourage you to pray for courage and strength and the wisdom to keep you walking in the right direction.  Continually praise your Heavenly Father for all that is coming to you and know that you are being prepared to receive your greatest joy.} 

_{If you are serious for what you are praying for, you will transform your life as you watch all that you have been seeking is now manifesting in your life.  Don’t stop believing; don’t stop praying instead stand firm.}   Don’t give into doubt!  _{Declare and prophesize your future!  It will help you receive all that you desire.  Positive self-talk is most helpful. Calling in the energy of your Power Angels is valuable.  I know for me, when I feel down or challenged I immediately move into words and thoughts that are uplifting and that will enrich me. Before I know it, my energy shifts and my heart lightens.  Use your words to empower you and never give up!  Visualize what you want to experience and believe it is coming!}

Being open-minded has great benefits

August 15, 2017

Sometimes it is difficult to open your mind and take a look at different ideas or opinions other than your own.  I have found, however, that when I open my mind, I realize a great deal of rewarding benefits. You have the power to heal your life and empower yourself in the process when you view your world with an open-mind. The good news is that you can change and open your mind if you choose to move out of your comfort zone and become vulnerable to new possibilities or ways of viewing life.  You may not have been exposed to various beliefs or cultures as you were growing up but that should not keep you from opening your mind and exposing you to different thoughts, practices, beliefs and value systems that exist all around you.  Our world would be so much better lived if we could open our minds and consider something new and different.  You just might be pleasantly surprised at the various degrees or ways that you could benefit and prosper from.

Being open-minded has the power to enable you to:

1. Change your beliefs so you can change your life.

2.  Free yourself from the chains of control.  Feel liberated from your controlling thoughts as you experience new opportunities; that simple step in it self will empower you!

3.  Gain confidence by your exposure to a world all around that prior to this time, you have been blinded to see. When you are open to see with new eyes and hear with new ears you are now allowing you to become open to something different. That simple step has the power to help you heal your life.

4. Strengthen yourself in ways you never thought possible.  Through your trust, confidence and willingness to open your mind, you are expanding your horizons to see the world and others in a different and improve way.

5.  Be sincerely honest with yourself!  See you and your past limited vision for what it is.  Don’t walk around with a restricted and controlled vision or beliefs.

6.  Use your mistakes to teach you about new ways and possibilities. Life is better lived when you are open to see and observe the whole picture instead of continually seeing and holding true to only those thoughts or beliefs that served your restricting thinking.

An open-minded person lives life more enriched and better fulfilled.  An open-minded person is one who sees the value in empowering self. My suggestion is to learn to be open-minded to yourself before you attempt to explore being open-minded towards others. That is how you can begin the process of healing your life. It does involve much soul-searching and being vulnerable to your absolute truth of who you are, why you do what you do, and how you became what you are today.  Spending time alone or in nature and simply reflecting on you and your life up to this point is powerful.  Don’t be ashamed or fearful for what you might discover; be open to looking at yourself in a more Godly and inspiring way—in truth, honesty and enlightening.  Your life and your worldly vision will absolutely expand in ways you never thought possible before.  You are finally waking up to see colors you never saw before, options that never seem available before and a plethora of abundance that seems to be miraculous!  Don’t let your past limited thinking stop you from reaching your highest potential!  Empower yourself so you begin the healing process for yourself!  Expand your mind!

Do you like to hold grudges?

August 8, 2017

When someone does us wrong, we want to get even and let the world know about the evil side of that person.  While you may be right in feeling upset or hurt about the bad behavior of others, I believe our Heavenly Father would prefer for us to swallow our pride and turn the other cheek. Be the bigger person!  In order to heal your lifeand transform your life to the degree that you desire, you need to release all the evil thoughts and actions that arise and change your attitude from revenge to offering blessings.  Do you realize you can actually overcome evil with doing good deeds and  not by thinking of ways to do more evil!  When you do good to those who have done you wrong, you are being more effective than if you tried to get the enemy back.  It allows the Creator of the Universe to use tolerance to your advantage

It is easy being good to those who are nice to you but it is most difficult to be nice to those who offend and hurt you.  That is the time you need to pray for those who harm you not for their benefit but for your good.  When you prove to your Creator that you are not bitter and holding a grudge: that is when your Creator knows you are the best person who can handle the promotions and all the blessings that life has to offer you.  You are the bigger person, you are the one who can handle all situations, and therefore, you are the one who will not only transform your life but be the right example to help others transform their lives too!

When you are good to someone who has done you harm, you are setting a better example; you are being the better person and your Almighty Father will honor you for your goodness.  That is when healing your life begins.I have learned to forgive and forget the harm that I have been caused because the words of God continually come into my head:  “ Father forgive them for they know not what they are doing.”  That is one of the ways that I transform my life daily.   I encourage you to stop holding grudges and being bitter; instead take the high road, be the one who can let go and let God handle your enemies.  He knows how to make all situations right! Living with grudges and unforgiveness is poison to your mind, body and spirit and will eventually be used to destroy you rather than to benefit you.  It is impossible to heal your life and to transform your life when you hold grudges against those who have done you wrong and hurt your feelings. Stop judging the lives of others!  Maybe it is time to show understanding, mercy and forgiveness towards others.  I believe it’s time to get past the anger, resentment and grudges.  When you pray and ask Your Heavenly Father to give you the courage and strength to understand, you will be the one who will reap the benefits, the blessings and the graces needed to live a life of transformation as you heal your life from all negativity.  The benefits are that you will begin to live your life with an abundance of inner peace and joy.

Blessing your enemy is showing people that you are exceptional and you are ready to be used by your Creator to do good deeds in the world.  Too many people live their lives craving to enjoy inner peace and contentment yet they do nothing to bring it about.  I want you to know that when you are the bigger person and you do good to those who have done you harm, you are the beneficiary of God’s goodness and blessings.  Maybe it’s time for you to rise up, be the bigger person and praise God for all the blessings you have in your life.  Grudges are poisonous; inner peace and joy will heal your life; they are the gift from your Creator.  Please choose wisely for your life.

Can you live from a place of peace and joy?

July 18. 2017

Develop a limitless mentality!

July 10, 2017

Patriotism is Based on Love

July 3, 2017

I was startled to hear on the news that there are a group of people in the USA who lack patriotism, pride in their country and who as a result lack pride and love for the values that bind us all together today.  So what is fact and what is fiction?  As a life coach and a relationship expert, I have seen how the young and old have lost touch with their true purpose and have been totally captivated by what is presented in front of them whether it be in the school environment or through the news media and movie industry.

It is very hard to have a healthy relationship with your self or others if your thinking is overshadowed by negativity or dark-sided exhibits of anger, resentment, greed and even unforgiveness.  If you are expending emotional energy in the wrong direction, you eventually become so distracted in life that you somewhere along the line lose your compass and become a follower of the loud noise of the problematic minority who thrive on divisiveness and attacking those who stand for values and principles.

Respect, tolerance and a commonality of purpose for all good peoples is what we need to stand for.  In truth, if we humans were willing to live with the first two commandments of our Creator, we would not need all the other rules and laws.  They are: To love your God with all your mind, heart and spirit and to love your neighbor as you love yourself.  “Love” is the common denominator.  All good and healthy relationships thrive because those involved believe in those principles.  Become your own relationship expert and start cultivating these simple principles; when you do, your life will improve and your circumstances will be filled with grace.  I believe we can all be our best life coach because after all, it is the life we get to live when we make sound and wise choices.

Our country is a place where we get to live our dreams, to walk freely and enjoy the simple pleasures that are placed in front of us.  To take advantage of these gifts and benefits requires each of us to accept and assimilate with the principles and values that our country was founded upon.  With all of the freedoms and treasures that our country shares comes a duty and responsibility for all peoples to keep their focus on the truth, to educate themself for their highest and best good and to be filled with sufficient pride and self-respect to stay on the high road as you refuse to get involved in the battles and anger of those who have only one mission—to create conflict and disruption.  Those individuals are the enemy. I encourage you to identify those who have self-serving messages and move away from them.  Don’t waste your time on connecting with the wrong people.  It’s time for you to reach the fullness of your destiny by choosing wisely as you build healthy relationships with those who have the same motives and purpose that you stand for.  Coach yourself daily!  Fill your mind and spirit with those values and principles that will make a good and healthy difference in your world.  Be the change you want to see in the world.  Lead by your example and tap into the patriotic spirit that makes all of us members of a free and prosperous country.  Mark Twain once wrote in Notebook, 1904: “In the beginning of a change the patriot is a scarce man, and brave, and hated and scorned. When his cause succeeds, the timid join him, for then it costs nothing to be a patriot.”

Guilt causes you to struggle!

June 28, 2017

It’s time to surrender to a higher good!

June 22, 2017

How you Started is not Important

June 12, 2017

How you started is not important – how you finish is what counts!  You can break the chains that bind you and you can create changes that will transform your life if you make the right choices that will enhance your development and improve your thinking and your life.    You may be facing challenges that seem impossible but I want you to know when you change your words and thinking you will change how you perform.  It definitely takes responsibility on your part.

The enemy (your negative mental outlooks), cannot over power you unless you give your power away!  You are in the palm of your Creators hand being held, protected and guided.  He is forever invested in you and your success.  You must, however, do your part.  You have free will and that means you have the ability to make choices.  It is your responsibility to do what is right for you if you are determined to reach your highest potential.

It has been declared in Psalm 18:16 that Your Heavenly Father will reach down from on high and told hold of you.  He will pull you out of deep waters, the drowning water of despair, depression, fear and/or what ever struggles that seem to be plummeting you into the depth of the earth.  Nothing is impossible with your Heaven Father on your side.  He is more than capable to rescue you!

It is impossible to reach your highest potential when you refuse to do your part.  You may be facing hopes and dreams that seem impossible but with Your Creator on your side, you will get through, you will succeed and you will receive all that your hearts desires.

There is no question that our lives can be challenging and often difficult but nonetheless, you cannot have a victim mentality if you want to have a glorious life. You may have situations that put you at a disadvantage but I want you to know that you can overcome your doubt, fear and struggles when you rise up and without a question of a doubt, believe and be hopeful that your outcome and desire to reach your highest potential is about to happen for you and in your life.

Our Creator will respect our choices and our Free Will.  He can do only so much; each one of us must take responsibility for our attitude and behavior. There can be no room for negativity to take up space in your life.  To transform your life requires you to remain on the path and roadway of positivity.

I believe your life is about to turn around especially if you do your part and refuse to buckle under pressure.  Continually you must pray for your courage, strength and the wisdom to do what is for your highest and best good so that you will not be defeated.  The key for your success requires that you never lose hope, then surely you will transform your life.

Are You an Open-Minded Person?

June 7, 2017

Every day we travel on the roadway of life connecting with all types of personalities and characters who either influence us or allow us to pass by and move along quietly unprejudiced.  Relationships enter into all our daily activities and some are negative while others are inspiring and positive.  We sooner or later become our own relationship expert as we observe and decide what relationships we want to encourage and which ones we choose to avoid.

We all have those people who are significant in our lives but do we ever let them know how much we value them or love being in their presence?  Healthy and positive relationships are some of the most wonderful connections we can enjoy in our lives. However, some people close themselves off from making new relationships because they think they cannot handle cultivating new experiences or people in their lives.  Sadly enough, those individuals are missing out on new opportunities to broaden their horizons and experiences.  As a life coach, I have seen first hand how some people deny them selves from being open minded and receptive to life changing views and interests.

I personally find it interesting to meet new people, hear what they have to say because I never know when I will learn something new.  Being a life coach allows you to try new ways of challenging yourself, listening to others thoughts and opinions and thinking outside the box.  Self-discovery is amazing as it offers numerous opportunities to explore what experiences or things of beauty that are hidden just around the corner of your daily life. There are numerous types of relationships that challenge you, uplift you and even support you, so as your own relationship expert, I ask you to also be your own life coach and force your to step outside of your comfort zone, keep an open mind and take a chance on experience a new encounter that just might add some spice to your life.  Who knows, someday you just might look back on your life and that moment when you enjoyed a sweet time of laughter and joy with someone who opened your mind and softened your heart.  One word can start a relationship, one smile can change a life, one look can save a relationship and one person at a time can change the world.

May 25, 2017

What Do You Envision as Your Life’s Purpose?

What inspires you to learn, grow and envision the real meaning for your life?  Many people don’t have the resources to hire a life coach or a business consultant to guide them on their journey through life.  We want encouragement, support and a helping hand but that doesn’t often happen.  Today I want to give you a boast as I offer some suggestions to enable you to become your own life coach.  It takes dedication and discipline but you can achieve your end results by applying some of my business consulting techniques for your life.

First, make a list of the areas in your life that you want to improve upon and change.  Try to focus on just one specific need at a time.  This process is not supposed to overwhelm you so don’t load your plate, so to speak with too many things.

Second, once you have chosen that one specific need or situation that you want to change, write out clearly what is troubling you or causing you to falter.  Are you unhappy in your job or your home life?  Are you having difficulty getting started on a project or possibly cultivating a social life?   Stay focused on one specific need and then begin to write out an approach that you think might help you progress in a favorable way to reach your desired goal.   Remember as your own life coach, you are beginning to coach yourself in a positive way.  Give yourself a timeline, for example one to three months to reach your goal.   As a business consultant, I believe it is very important to always create manageable goals.

Third, Be creative in a positive way to seek out answers or solutions to your needs.  If your goal is to be more successful in your job, you will begin to become aware of different possibilities or procedures that will help you move in the direction of your successful line of thinking and/or approach.  Thinking outside of the box is a sure sign that you are utilizing your critical thinking skills.

Fourth, Now it’s time to ask yourself some valuable and possibly eye-opening questions that just might alter what you envision as your greatest needs.  What brings you joy and what do you visualize as your life’s purpose?  As your own life coach, it is helpful for you to truly identify the quality of life you want to experience.  As you begin to understand your strengths and weaknesses, you will be in a better position to set your sights on those areas that bring you great satisfaction and joy.  Now you are ready to visualize what your future is going to look like and begin living it in your mind’s eye.  Being your own life coach will enable you to open up new pathways that will help you live your life to the fullest.

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May 15, 2017

Do You Value Yourself? 

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May 2, 2017

Do You Have Double Standards?

Too often we are critical of those who don’t fit into the mold of what we call our friends or those who voice a different opinion then our self.  We make excuses for the attitudes or behavior of our friends but then we tear apart others who do the exact same thing.  We think it is OK to shun some people because we don’t like their way of thinking or their looks and yet we justify our actions because it serves our purposes.  We often lie to ourselves as we twist facts to support our beliefs and our conduct or even our need to be liked and noticed.   As a relationship expert, I label that type of conduct as living with double standards.

I have personally seen how people will maneuver to get closer to those whom they want to impress or gain their favor not because they actually like them but because they have an ulterior motive.  Possible they want support, or a job or even earn the attention of those whom they have been trying to attract for some hidden reason.  As a relationship expert and life coach, I can truly say with confidence that most people do not say what they mean, they do not do what they say they are going to do and they do not mean what they say.  During my career, I have coached many individuals who are suffering and feeling confused and baffled about their lives yet they choose not to take the high road and get to the root of their issues.  Instead they look outside of themselves for the answers and solutions.

So what exactly is a double standard?  A double standard is the application of different sets of values and principles for similar situations that you enforce to satisfy your ego mind and your intolerance of others for your personal gain.

To truly know your self is golden! Most people would enjoy a more fulfilling and comfortable life if they seriously took the time to discover their authentic self.  Everything in life evolves around relationships and good and healthy relationships are the happiest and most successful encounters that we can enjoy. As a life coach I have seen the sadness and hurt of people who lack the skills to develop healthy relationships.  Healthy relationships are necessary if we want to feel connected with others in a strong and uplifting way.

Each one of us has the talent and ability to become our own relationship expert if and when we willingly take the time to dig deep within ourselves and look honestly at our behavior, our attitude and the environment we surround our selves around. We seem to seek out relationships to satisfy our needs yet we refuse to face our needs and therefore, they are not being satisfied or fulfilled.

Now is the time to coach yourself, talk to yourself and look at yourself in the mirror hard and strong.  If you become a source of joy and inner peace for yourself, you will be better able to cultivate those types of relationships with others.  Stop living with double standards and face what it is that you ideally value and appreciate.  Self-observation is a great way to start!

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April 26, 2017

Be Faithful in Your Routine